Ways to know if your husband is cheating

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Physical intimacy is a cornerstone of marriage. Women learn how their partner behaves, especially his 'moves' in the bedroom. If your husband starts to shut you out, or worse, randomly starts breaking out new moves in the bedroom, you'll want to check and see if he's started reading women's magazines, or is taking lessons from another woman. Yes No I need help 11 He deletes text messages from his phone.

Most people don't delete their text messages, because it usually takes more effort than reading them. If he starts deleting his text messages, chances are that you have a cheating husband on your hands, or one preparing to cheat. Yes No I need help 12 He makes and receives phone calls in private. This is another big red flag. Only a man who doesn't want you to hear what he's talking about takes or makes calls in private. Usually, the only time your husband doesn't want you to hear what he's talking about is when he's cheating, or talking about you.

Yes No I need help 13 He gets a second number. Most wives won't even notice this, but if your husband gets a nice new phone, you might check to see if it has two SIM cards. If so, what does he need a second number for, and why hasn't he shared that number with you? This is a sure sign that he's keeping some pretty serious secrets - one of which is probably an another woman. Yes No I need help 14 He has more than one personal email address. Almost everyone old enough to be married has transitioned through several email accounts, ultimately deleting most of them in favor of one or two.

If your husband is working full time, and keeping multiple personal email accounts, the only reason for him to have the stress of managing multiple accounts is to cheat, or to keep the door open for and old flame to rekindle the fires of desire. This is just like the email account problem discussed above. If he's going to the trouble of keeping many different accounts, it's almost certainly because he's either already cheating, or planning to cheat in the future.

Instant Messages are the new email, and because they're more private than regular SMS and Text messages, it's fairly easy for your husband to cheat on you without your knowledge. While you shouldn't expect to read his messages on his phone any more than he should expect you to read them and give a summary of the important ones, there's nothing wrong with glancing at his screen from time to time. If he's hiding it, chances are he's hiding more than just a message. Yes No I need help 17 His body or clothes smell differently than they used to. Too many women overlook this basic element of their husbands.

Every man has his own smell. It's a combination of what he eats, where he sleeps, the soaps and colognes he uses, and the woman he sleeps with. If the smell of his body changes, it's time to see if he's been having curry for lunch, or an affair with another woman for dessert. Yes No I need help 18 He doesn't participate in group gatherings of family and friends. However much we like or dislike our relatives, spending time with them is part of being married.

So is spending time with friends. If your husband stops spending time with friends and family, especially in group settings, it's a sure sign that something's wrong. Maybe he's planning to leave, or maybe he is cheating on you and doesn't want his other woman to see you together. Yes No I need help 19 He is spending a significant amount of time with someone else. This one is pretty obvious, but many women overlook it in the interests of being 'modern'. Just as it's OK for a married woman to have male friends, it's also OK for her husband to have female friends.

The thing that's not OK is when he's taking your time and spending it with her. If you notice that he's doing this, it could be a sign that your husband is cheating. Reel him in before it's too late. Yes No I need help 20 He spends a lot of time helping someone else, or gives gifts to them. This one is tough, because some men are genuinely sweet, and naturally giving. They will help out anyone. Unfortunately, some women are not so sweet, and may abuse your husband's trust, or worse, turn it into an affair.

Likewise, he might also be spending more time with another woman because he prefers her company to yours. Either way, it's a recipe for infidelity, and best nipped in the bud. Yes No I need help 21 He stretches short trips out of the house into long trips. Have his 30 minute walks in the park or short trips to the store turned into hours-long excursions? There can be a number of reasons for this, but they all usually involve him preferring to spend his time elsewhere.

In the case of a store, maybe there's a cute young cashier or other relatively unattached girl he's chatting with at the coffee shop, or maybe his dog walks include the understanding company of an otherwise unoccupied college girl. Whatever his reasons, none of them are good, and all point to a cheating husband. Yes No I need help 22 He starts arguments out of nothing, and then leaves the house. This one seems so obvious, yet many women miss it due to being so distraught over an argument they can't understand.

This is because it hits them from out of nowhere, and then they sit home wondering what they did wrong to make their husbands leave. This I sad, because a husband who starts a fight over nothing and then leaves the house is either looking for an excuse to leave the house, or not expressing his true frustrations. Both are signs of deeper problems, often involving infidelity.

Yes No I need help 23 He is extremely angry and frustrated, seemingly without cause. Men can be angry over life events and circumstances. It's also quite normal for him to be frustrated with things that are beyond his control, such as economic hardships, accidents, or work difficulties. What's not normal is for your husband to be angry and frustrated over nothing.

If this is the case, the 'nothing' might just be a woman you aren't aware of, that he's been cheating with, but unable to express his guilt over. Yes No I need help 24 He is defensive about everything, almost as if he is anticipating conflict. Few people like conflict, especially in the home. Your husband is no different, so if he's defensive about everything, and always prepared for conflict, you need to dig a little deeper. A man behaving like this is often doing so because he knows something's wrong. He knows something's wrong, because he's having an affair. Yes No I need help 25 You stop seeing or hearing from his family as much as you used to.

Momma's don't betray their babies, and many men tend to live by the bro code, where they stick together no matter what. If you're seeing signs that he might be telling his mother or family about an impending separation, or you've noticed that his friends aren't so friendly towards you anymore, it's a problem. In fact, this problem almost always involves another woman, and is a serious sign of trouble. Yes No I need help 26 He begins dressing differently. Men don't often change their styles.

If he likes jeans and a polo shirt, that's likely going to be his style forever. So, if you notice that he's traded in his jeans for a pair of dockers, or his usually conservative polo shirt for a printed t-shirt with a rock band logo on it, you might have a cheating husband on your hands. Men only change the way they dress when it serves a purpose, which in this case is pleasing another woman. Yes No I need help 27 He starts caring more about how he looks. Grooming and hygiene patterns change. If your man used to be OK with slightly messed up hair, or half of a shave, and he's now carefully grooming himself, it's obviously not to impress you.

In fact, one of the most obvious signs your husband is cheating on you is when he starts improving his personal hygiene and grooming habits. Don't ignore this, as it's an indication of a husband looking to please or impress another woman. Yes No I need help 28 His overall appearance has changed. This one is harder to spot, but it bears mention because it's usually a sign of problems that lead to an affair, rather than the actual affair. Sometimes, when your husband isn't happy, he'll start making little changes, and the shift from outgoing to conservative, or conservative to outgoing, is one of them.

If you see this, talk to him, before he gets tangled up in an affair that could destroy your marriage. Yes No I need help 29 His tastes in music change. Not that many wives notice this one, because many times their husbands can have some strange tastes in music.

However, if your classic rock loving husband starts listening to Tecno, there's a reason. Sometimes it is just be because he likes it, but more often, it's because the woman he's cheating on you with likes that style of music. He either wants to make her happy, or is pleasantly reminded of her while jamming out to the latest step. Yes No I need help 30 He starts visiting art exhibits or enjoying trips to museums. This one might seem a little funny at first, until you learn about the young art student your husband has taken an interest in, or the history major who has enchanted him with welcoming smiles and tales of ancient Rome.

If he starts finding interest in things he previously had no interest in, it's a sure sign that another woman has his interest. Take note, and steer him away from infidelity. Yes No I need help 31 He starts attending office parties and social events he used to avoid. Everyone knows the jokes about office parties, and let's be honest, they're usually pretty true. So, when your husband suddenly starts attending them, it probably has something to do with the new girl in the office.

If you aren't invited, it almost certainly has something to do with her. This is a sure sign of trouble in your relationship. Yes No I need help 32 The level of attention he gives you drastically changes. If your normally passionless man suddenly becomes a charming powerhouse of passion, enjoy it, but pay very close attention to him.

Is your partner stepping out? Pay attention to these potential signs of infidelity.

Likewise, if your man of endless passion suddenly turns cold, take that as a warning sign too. He's likely either giddy with joy in another woman's arms, or he's gone cold because she's taking all that heat and keeping it for herself. Yes No I need help 33 He suddenly develops an interest in a new language. This isn't usually something that younger wives need to worry about. It's more often reserved for those who have been married a few years. In these instances, a cheating husband might discuss a desire to visit France, for example.

This naturally leads to French lessons, which his wife mistakes as being an indication of a planned trip to another country. She never sees the affair his 'language' lessons are hiding. While new languages are great, be careful your husband isn't more than just new words in his mouth. My husband had an ex 8 months ago but the girl still sends him messages and calls him. So is there a possibility that they still meet and are dating?? There are several factors at play here that can affect this answer. For one thing, he might still have feelings for her, such as feeling sorry for her but not acting on them.

The second possibility is that they do meet, but it is not because he has romantic intentions towards her. The fourth possibility is that they are seeing each other but he does not have the heart to tell you. Yes No I need help As honesty is the best policy in a love relationship your best approach here is to just simply ask him if he is committed to a future with you and if so, will she be part of it?

If you are suspicious now, it is the time to draw boundaries and state clearly what it is about his ex contacting him that bothers you. If he does not want to allay your fears or refuses to have the conversation or accuses you of not trusting him then it might be time to leave the relationship. On the other hand, if he tells you it is nothing you might prefer to take him at his word rather than create an atmosphere of mistrust. Yes No I need help See more questions like this: My sister's husband was working abroad and now a women wrote her that he had an affair with her and he denied?

He goes to work when is raining, leaves early and comes home late, goes in the garage and tells me I was being a jerk when in fact I wasn't. Doesn't take me places anymore. He has at the very least treated you disrespectfully. Maybe he just needs his own space right now but I would start to pay attention to what he was doing more such as if he is working late bring him dinner.

Yes No I need help Not sure if he's cheating at present though he claims not? I have found 2 substances and 2 condoms in his bag last year. He stayed out at his office for Christmas party till 2 or so PM. Wonder if you have any input? Please help if you can. Maybe those condoms are from a long time ago and he never got rid of them, however, there should be no reason for him to have condoms unless they were with you. Why would a married man text his single secretary from work at night time if he isn't having an affair. Especially if she is his right-hand person at work like many secretaries are.

He may be texting her about something she needs to do first thing in the morning or asking if something has been completed that he requested.

Yes No I need help Should I divorce him? Should I trust him again if we stay married?

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My husband and I have been married for 20 years. Last year I found out about his 8 years affair with a woman who is 17 younger than him. I also got hold of his cellphone records. During the 8 years, he sent texts and called her every day. Last Valentines Day I asked him to make up to me by buying me a card.

He ignored me almost completely. Again on our wedding anniversary, I asked him to do something special for us, but again he just kind of not interested in my request. This got me very upset and we ended fighting on our anniversary. I suggested we go to see a marriage counselor but he refused to say that we just move forward. He said he admitted his past wrongdoing. Simply put, people in committed relationships have no need to maintain accounts that their partners don't know about. If you discover one of these, it is time to be concerned.

He avoids family or other social events. Infidelity, whether physical or emotional, will always result in lost time with friends and family. If your partner avoids social gatherings or activities, leaves early or arrives late because of some project or task, there may be a strong chance that he is spending time with someone else, whether on the phone, the computer, or in person. He suddenly spends tons of time with another person. If your partner is suddenly spending a lot of time with a colleague, co-worker, friend or even an acquaintance, particularly if that person is of the opposite sex, you may want to learn more about this relationship and the possibility that there may be an affair going on.

He gives gifts or frequently volunteers to help another person. Although it is nice to give gifts and do kind things for friends, family members and even strangers, if your partner frequently gives gifts, especially those that are costly, take time and effort to prepare or have significant meaning, or volunteers to help out with projects around the home, this may be a sign that he is having an emotional affair. You notice a different scent on him. Whether it's another woman's perfume or possibly a different brand of soap from showering elsewhere, your senses know things. If he's coming home freshly showered after a full day of work, the same way he left for work, you may have a hint he's having an affair.

He doesn't touch you as much. Sometimes affection drops off a bit due to poor communication, unresolved issues or a recent argument. If this is unexplained behavior or he is repelling you with odd excuses, you may have a hint. At minimum, you have an issue in your relationship that needs to be addressed honestly.

Has your husband started to dress a little differently or does he keep his vehicle a bit cleaner? Has he been acting slightly happier and more cooperative, yet all of a sudden he is busier and just leaving the house more often? If so, take heed. Does your man usually take the dog out for a half hour run every day, but now it's a minute walk-run? Who is he running into all of a sudden at the dog park or in the neighborhood? If it's not "chatty Kathy," he may be having an affair. Go with him once in a while. Is your husband starting arguments that end up in him leaving the house a lot?

Are his garments coming up missing here and there? Last night I saw more back dated phone bills. Unfortunately I have very poor mobility and take many meds because of my spinal injury. I deserve to be happy and so. You can forgive the affair but not the abuse, mind games and terror I live under, I left him 5 years ago for domestic abuse, unfortunately not one person believed me. He faked having a breakdown and shutter so people felt sorry for him.

Putting up with a disable wife who he cares for. It was nerve pain. I asked if he could wait unntil tomorrow. He lost it and grabbed hold of me round the neck and just kept punching me with our son watching who was 5 at the time. Just a few years before I ended up breaking my back, that night I was rushed for surgery. I ended up signing myself out of hospital so my husband could return to work. Our relationship be been bad for a longtime. I was able to get extensive amounts of therapy over the years and I continue to get therapy when I get overwhelmed.

Therapy was what made me see my inner strength. Those toxic relationships takes a piece of your soul and the only way to get some of it back is to seek some help. Do some reflecting and journal. Sounds like you dont have a lot of support and you definitely need some support so hopefully you will gain some from this site. I am not sure if you are able to go to therapy or even utilize phone therapist google that. My prayers are with you and your family because this is not an easy battle to fight. I got upset on valentines day and cut up the flowers. I turblant year last yr with my mum dying in the summer.

I went through my depression cave, he had temper when i didnt do a few things in the house. Last few weeks he goes to a hit class ladies only man. He took his ring off at the gym a few times thinking its ok. He had a lot of stress at work. He wants to burn it off the stresses.

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He telling me hes not cheating. But i am unsure what was going on. My friends think he is. I just dont know? Or is it a Midlife crises. I felt like a maid cleaner and the childcarer for my baby and my 5 yr old in the house not much support. I did accuse him of cheating. Lady, I am a husband who is being accused of cheating right now. My wife reads this article and takes it as the gospel with little regard to context.

I have been accused for year of cheating with her best friend. I am overly frustrated with her accusations as anyone would be if you were falsely accused hundreds of times, approached with aggression, arguments, etc. Per your article if I get upset that she continues to lie on my I am not to be angry, frustrated, etc. Your writing is dangerous giving people false senses of what is true. People are reading this as doctrine and not understanding that this list is not all inclusive and not always representative of a situation.

There are other factors at play that you FAIL to mention. I can see how frustrated you would be if you are being accused for something you are NOT doing. In my case, this article is spot on, unfortunately. I have caught my husband cheating. Just one of many. When asked about this — he gets angry. So the female intuition and the signs — spot on. We have a great sex life — no reason for him to be wandering. So what do you make of that? My husband cheated me more than three times.

I snooped on his phone and saw that he enquired from his niece the number of one of the woman he cheated me with. I snooped further and saw he also have the number of another woman he cheated me with after I deleted it myself. He never tells me I look beautiful or is interested in what I do. If I do not tell him how my day was he will not ask. He is often away due to work obligations and he recently came back from a trip and all of a sudden ask me who ever told me that he likes chicken drumsticks? He also changed the way he makes his coffee. And so I can go on 6.

What confuses me is that when he is home he is never out. He always stays with me and the kids. He is mostly on his phone and tablet when I am in bed. I sometimes get up softly and enters the living room after I went to bed to find him on the phone or tablet. I have been in a relationship with my man for quite sometime now and I never knew he was Cheating at least I never saw anything till some few months before we ended when he was always a laughing on his phone.

I got advice to get help from blackrazor protonmailcom who helped hack his phone and I got proof to take actions. Try him out he is literally the best out there. Thank you for indulging, but I give updates. So I want to thank my sister, for confirming my worst fears.

Photos of him in Disney World, on planes, him dancing at a wedding and lip and tongue locking this whore! You can only imagine the heartbreak I felt, as my sister flips through photos. I cried my eyes out to her as I thanked her for validating my fears. So he keeps texting and phoning the old number I had on our joint plan. Cut up the credit card him and I shared, took my account off our credit card billing options. Yep, glad my sister validated how I felt. I hope Tony has a nice Christmas with Theresa, his whore.

Because this girl is tired of being played. You should be mad with your boyfriend as it was his choice to cheat. The wife is the one who owes no one anything. Give me a break. So here is my story. He knew everything about me before we were married, and I always thought I knew almost everything about him. Back in my dad was in and out of the hospital a lot. I was working but every time he was in the hospital I was there to comfort and be with him and my mom.

During this time I relied on my husband a lot to listen and comfort. We were sleeping in superstructure beds because of his snoring already, so we continued to sleep separately. As time went on we lost our cat, my cousin and 2 more cats which I adored them all. My husband and I became more like roommates, no sex at all, barely spoke, no affection, he would come home late or when he felt like it.

When I would call.. I was going threw hell. I never thought the not having sex bothered him, he never asked or said anything, and I was devastated all around. So, In June, I discovered that he had been visiting sites for at least 4 years. He never deleted anything. He was such a lying jerk. There was even 4 sights where he looked up women. I explode with fury. He lied about it all initially. Long story short, we have been trying to work things out. Im not in the position to leave. He swears, promises, confesses he will never go there again. He says he was selfish and always and still does feel very guilty.

Says he never physically cheated on me and never would. I get and still am so pissed and betrayed by this man. I lost any self esteem I had which was never a lot and I question everything about myself physical attributes and so forth. Although he Denys that as well. My deep inner thoughts tell me he has cheated and not to ever believe him completely. He tells me he would and has never crossed that line.

I really am struggling everyday with this I feel fake sometimes because I have to hold back my thoughts because he gets pissed. I discovered i was being played for a fool and scammed. Who knows it possibly saved my life. I know it sounds like a hallmark movie but I discovered this person had manipulated me for over 9 years. The best thing I ever did is get in touch with some tech guy called thunderbirdinc, he saved me so much trouble. You need to spy, get to know who your partner has been talking to, get confidential data out of any cellphone and you tell him you were referred to him by jaswiththasauce Contact him on thunderbirdhack AT gmail DOT com.

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I can not confront mine he will become abusive. Why would you say that? Yes it is abuse but that was a really cruel thing to say. I have been with my partner for 3 years. My past relationships which were only two others never treated me like this. Which he says in front of his friends to me constantly. He humiliates me all the time in front of people. I want to know what to do. I am a quiet person and always have been. But I want to tell him to F Off! And all I want out of life is to love someone and for someone to love me unconditionally forever. Idk but I feel a little better commenting.

I know its something small but I feel better. I need to figure out what to do next. Hopefully I will grow some balls and just leave and find happiness somewhere else. Maybe no more relationships for a while and focus on me. Get a job and get my own home. I have done it before…. Your very young dude! And they are the very two things I hate!

I feel my fiancee has cheated on me though he has tried to tell me he hasnt the odd behavior you discussed is how he acts, but i have accused him a whole lot. Thank you for sharing this glimpse into your relationship. It also sounds like you did a very smart thing by asking him to move out. The thought of starting over — and going through the process of separating, breaking up, dividing up all your stuff — is painful and overwhelming.

Or, are you confused because you are second-guessing your gut instincts? Not only is your intuition telling you that your partner is lying, cheating, and using you… Your friend is saying the same thing. My partner and I are currently sleeping in separate rooms. I feel he lies to me and I have caught him a number of times. Ive never really questioned him about cheating before because I never thought he would. A couple of months ago I found out that he was talking to an old female friend he told me he accidentally ran into her when she called into his work.

He is a chef people eat there, it could happen. Soon after that they started messaging each other on Facebook, never added each other as friends but would send messages through messenger. He told me not to worry they were only friends. Then my suspension grew. I said to him that if he had nothing to hide he just needed to show me the messages. Another fight erupted over lies. He denies knowing anything about them. He is so convincing when he tells me things but last week I had a bit of a brain snap and all of these incidents plus others are making me question everything.

Oh one more thing he is a recovering alcoholic so when money goes missing each week I question him about drinking. I have asked him to move out. My friends think he uses me as a meal ticket. Well my partner has moved out. Well I forced the move it was the only way to get him to leave. I packed his things and dropped at his work after finding our bin full of empty cartons of alcohol. He still denies cheating which is fine, the lying about money drinking and other things is more my reasoning.

I said in my original comment that I was confused I suppose I was more scared than anything else. Scared of being alone, scared of what he might do, and scared of course of not being able to cope financially. I was right to worry about what he would do. He is extremely manipulative and knows exactly what to say to get to me. He has now resorted to going through my daughter who is in hospital. She just had a baby he was messaging her while she was in labour to pass messages onto me. He knew she was in labour. He only thinks of himself. I am so tired. Just want this to end. This past July, he bagged out on our conference that we attend every year.

Says he had to help his parents move to their new house! So he knew my fear of flying, but chose to leave me go all alone, be frightened on the plane, etc. Then when I confront him once again, he says his rehearsed speech he tells me all the time. I heard some excuses, but this takes the cake! I guess his IPhone told him to disappear too for the entire week I was attending the conference? He appears once again acting like nobody should be angry with him.

He hides in the bathroom all the time! But you know what? I am an authorized user on 2 of them, so I ordered statements. He whines and acts like a lil kid when I go on business trips, wanting to go with me. But when I wanna come with him to his trips? So another thing my lying cheating husband did. I just turned 40 last Wednesday. Then for my 40th birthday party, he arrived late, which made my folks annoyed! He says he got me tickets to see Billy Joel tomorrow. Your girlfriend that you claim is stalking you? They are devils in human form. Then he shows up and wants to be all romantic?

Why you being so mean? He got angry because I took myself off our cell phone plan and went to a plan of my own. So tired of him. If his affair partner wants him, she can have him. Verbal abuse daily along with complete detachment for me as a person. It started when I was 3 months pregnant with our son who is now 7 months old. But swares he loves us and yada yada. I gave up everything to settle down and have a family he made so many promises and goals and has broke everyone of them including all my boundaries. Hello, Reading your story i almost see mine.

Me and my boyfriend being in relationship little over than 2 years. Since we met he was the one who push us to relationship, he was the one who asking me to get pregnant and give him a child. I was very happy to meet such a man and i thought that would be it and this is my happily ever after.. Im honest and loyal and ny mistake was to think that everybody same like me. I trusted my boyfriend i have never been cheated before that what helps him fool me around. His phone was always on password, we never connected as friends on Facebook, instagram and other social media. After year abd a half of our relationship i got pregnant and he offer to move in in his house.

I did and it was a biggest mistake i have ever made. Long story short he never loved me he just used me because im very supportive and always was there for him mentally, physically and financially. Everything end up with so much abuse and disrespect, during whole my pregnancy i feel so lonely and miserable while he went out every night, never answered his phone and came back home at morning. If i try to ask something he get abusive and super angry.

Lately i found out he cheated on me with 18 years old neighbor across the street. I have a 2 month old baby and he betrayed me on such a disrespectful careless way. He has no heart no morals no limits, he hurted me so bad, but i have 2 ways to do: Im still leaving in his house because i have no family or place to go. I cant work right now because im taking care of my 2 month old son. Im originally from different country and all my family back there. My now ex boyfriend keep seeing those girl every night came back home very late with her lipstick all over.

I really loved him and it brakes my heart how careless he hurted me, but im strong enough to close my heart to someone who disrespect me like that. And you should do the same. This relationship thought me a lesson. If your partner hide his phone, Facebook or any other social media he is definitely liar and cheater, so i dont let noone hurt me ever again. Good luck and be strong, just remember you deserve nothing but the best and dont let someone who dont love you hold you from somebody who will. Over 20 years of marriage I have suspicion my Husband has cheated.

He had no clue that I found out he went before he even made it home. I asked him if he went he lied. Then when he realized I knew he cried and told me bits and pieces. No touching the ladies he says but I know different as well. I know you can pay to play. I confront him about it on occasion and he gets pissed and defensive. I feel there is more to it. I just want honesty. We have children involved.

I think my husband is cheating because he is constantly on his cell phone. I found a receipt for two dine in lunches. He started working late and he car is not there. He had an affair before on me and his ex wife. He accuses me of cheating constantly. He is very defensive and verbally abusive. Im so sorry to tell that, but yes hes definitely cheating.

My boyfriend did the same and later i find out he was in other relationship for the last 10 months. Be strong and decide what you really want. So this is my story, my husband of 4 years cheated and got her pregnant and me at the same time!! I lost my baby 2 days before finding out! I can tell you this, I did not want to live when I found out, I realised why people turn to drugs at that moment! To hide the pain.. Ladies please for the love of god, if you think his cheating, it usually means he is!! Run while you can… they are not worth it! And if you go against your gut feeling, then later down the track you will get stuck with a child and he would have moved on and leave you!!!

They are not worth it!! Ladies in the article above it mentioned the top 5 signs of cheating… I ticked every box.. The best advise I can leave on is let the men feel like his a men in the house even tho we know we are the men and we run the show make them feel like that are doing great.. Give them everything they want them to hear, even though they are the dumbest people on this planet…or else they will find that comfort somewhere else..

Mine started FB…he made comments not horrible. Accused me of cheating. Then blocked and locked. Next saw it agsin. Msde a plea of how it hurtd. I got more sudpicious. I believe he is text emsil VOIP??? We are in deep trouble. Last nite i find a condom in lunch bag. I packed my stuff. He woke up in anger said.

He threw stuff accused me of stalking. I gelt so distraught remained calm. Hecsaid he used me. We are married 3years now. Found out my husband had been looking for mature fun, and lying about cheating. Both my daughter and son were aware of it. My husband threatened them, told them not to tell me and said he would stop. It went on for 2. Every time we had a row about money usually.

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I foolishly never rose to the bait as he can be spiteful. But this one time I asked my husband what was going on. He told me nothing… my son told me eventually that my husband was lying about cheating. Confronted he said it was more like a game to him, chatting up women. My instinct told me differently. All the details of an online affair. He told one woman who noticed the wedding ring in photo that it was an old photo. He also Skyped the one he had the relationship with but she did live in USA.

I wondered if he was just a fantasist. Asked if he had contact numbers of women, he said no. What did I find? So he confessed then, but of course he said he had never rang them!! These messages, always have love notes in them. Also, the person calls repeatedly. A few months ago, this person supposedly hacked into his phone, sending messages to a bunch of us. Another thing that makes me suspicious. I have no reason to. Part of me thought of hiring a private detective.

So I can be either validated, or proven wrong. I invite him to family functions, however, when it comes to his family. Im going through something with my husband, I think he is lying about cheating. He always has his phone glued to him while he leaves the room ,takes a shower,takes a shit no matter where he goes in the house its always with him. My husband goes to a treatment 3 days out of the week. Then he just shakes his head and walks away n says he is getting tired and i got is head spinning. Now he wants to file for a divorce.

I feel it in my gut that he is doing n I guess i have my.. Sorry im way smarter then u think!!!!!! My husband and I have always been up and down from the beginning of our relationship, he suspected me of being unfaithful but I never have. I suspected him of having an affair with a co-worker 3 years ago and when I confronted him about it he denied it and teared up.

I said ok and never asked him again but I always have this nagging feeling every time I think about it. Lately my husband has been distant. All I am to him is a cook, maid, and occasional wife. We have 2 kids together and he rarely helps me out with them. Mine is cheating — tell me thing to do, keep me slaved, occupied. So he is free to do his things. Hello, my boyfriend acted just same as your husband: Lately i found out he was cheating on me for the last 10 month. I think my husband is cheating… found he purchased two movie tickets, then went out to a bar and stayed at a hotel weeks ago.

However I know he was supposed to be meeting up with a friend to check out his finished basement and hangout out. I confronted him and he stuck with the story that he was still with his buddy and went to the movie with a group, yet the tickets were just for two instead of just one. He works over an hour away from our home, but my gut says somethings not right. Anyone know a way to access iCloud to set up tracking on iPhone?

My husband was so smooth at hiding his infidelity so I had no proof for months. But I could just feel that he was lying about cheating! I trusted my gut instincts, and I was right. I have been married for over 11 years now, and I think my husband is lying about cheating.

Especially about something as personal as cheating. I have been married for 21years and have 2 teenage children when they were toddler I found out my husband had been going to massage parlour,brothels and internet cafes to watch porn,we had been married for 7 years at the time and had massive blowouts because of it yet he claimed he never paid he only went in a room one on one with a girl ,talked about services and price then would say he forgot his wallet for a reason to leave..

He did this for 5 years and claims it was just a cheap thrill. I then found out he went to a dating agency wanting to meet women who only wanted to hook up no strings attached but that went out the window because of the huge cost involved and I would notice. After a period of time we started to put our lives back together or so I thought. I have since found out that he done it for a further 11 years and is still claiming he has never paid for a happy ending and cut the porn down to once a month. How can any man do something like that for 16 years and never end up paying.

He works, but in off time plays video games. These video games have mod sites that add on features, or scenes, and adult mods that grown men dress up their virtual barbies is what I call them. Will do for them, but not for me. Changes the rules of our marriage or he justifies his crap.

Caught my husband lying so many times after I found evidence to confront him with. He also turns everything around on me. The 1st two years of our marriage was attacked by his ex-wife he was divorced from over 5 years her father sued my husband, but decided to wait until 2 weeks after we got married, and not within the 5 years he was divorced. So I did soooo much court case work for him, and was a strain on our marriage from the beginning. My husband claims that everything I do for him is my own decision.

I waited over 20 years to marry a 2nd time. I deprived myself of having things, just so my husband can have things. Debts that I did not agree to and tried to make money. And many men will not cleave to their wives over their mommies, which makes it hard on the wife as surely she will never please the MIL.

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