Tell tale signs your spouse is cheating

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I have no evidence of her cheating but all signs of a potential situation in the making are glaringly clear. I have also noticed in the last two months she has been very affectionate to a married personality that I know and when I ask, the answer I get is that he is just a good friend. I can not accuse her of infidelity but this friendship is making me very uncomfortable. Can there be just friendship or am I just refusing to smell the coffee? Ruilicks, I hate to say this but she is seeing someone and you are allowing it to happen because she has you convinced that you and her should stay together for the child.

She is getting her fulfillment with someone else while you are at home alone and unhappy. Instead of letting her walk all over you in the sake of your child you need to man up and tell her you need to live a happy life and file for divorce. No one deserves to live in a loveless relationship and she is staying out late, talking to another man or woman and just buying time until she is able to move on after the child grows up.

So basically, if I get this right, she and you are just together for the child, let me ask you this.. Then she will leave you and you will have no one and all the time you spent sitting around waiting for something to happen will be time lost from your own personal life and happiness. So now show her how it feels and move on. My husband of 14 yrs cheated on me with my best friend before and after we married.

When I asked my friend 4 years ago to be completely honest about all that had happened between them, that I wanted the full truth, she basically told me to have a nice life and has never contacted me again. I caught them on 3 different occasions and so I already knew but had happened and had hoped she at least could be honest with me…but NO! Guess what his sneaky ways are back.

His workouts last about 45 minutes and its a 5 minute drive from the gym to his work. Is it just me or does something just not add up there. What is your opinion about my friends reaction and to his recent activities???? Your husband seems to be doing what he wants and when he wants.

If you have told him how uncomfortable you feel in regard to his time and activities, you and him should speak to one another and communicate. It sounds as if there is no communication between the both of you. If you know that he has already had an affair , why do you continue to allow him to do what he wants? You and him should sit down and speak with one another and you should tell him how you feel and tell him that if he is or plans to be unfaithful, then you and him should part ways.

No one deserves to be treated like a third wheel and if that is the lifestyle he chooses then you should go and find someone that will honor your wishes and vows. If you feel that he is set in his ways and you have tried everything you can to save your marriage then it is time to move on. There is NO need to live in a home with no love and affection. More like ask myself why I married him… I caught him before we got married why the hell was I so blind… Ugh. Never ever getting married again… And trust me as soon as I find a job and get my pooh together his ass is out of my house.

Last straw was today found dried ejaculate in his underwear…. My husband has porn sites that keep showing up all the time in his cell phone browsing history and they are most of the time different from the last ones I find. Is it even possible to have things like that pop up randomly in your browsing history on a cell phone? To me the lie is worse than the act.

Please add these to your next edition. You call the cheater and they fail to answer their cell phone. One thing that I have learned is this. When You call your spouse and they fail to answer the phone, only to call you back in a few moments, that means that they are either with someone or at a place that you WOULD NOT approve of. You call your spouse and she claims to be at the mall with a female friend, but the background sounds more like a quiet room.

You call your spouse and she claims to be at the library studying or doing research, but the background sounds like a restaurant or mall. The cheater seems angry or irritated at unexpected changes in the schedule of the innocent spouse.

Is your wife cheating? THESE are the body language signs to look out for

Cheaters have three schedules to work with. They learn and know your routine better than YOU! They know when they can see the other person and for how long. They want to plan out their rendezvous as efficiently as possible. The day before your off days, and the day after your off days are crucial to catching them. If she is reluctant, upset or acts like she had plans…….. Do the same for Monday on occasion. NEVER tell your spouse too early that you plan to come home or take a day off.

When you come home early unannounced or tell them about taking time off as late as passible, they cannot hide or mask their true emotions. You will see them! Pay close attention to the passenger seat. Watch everything she moves around once inside the car. Does she remove something from the visor or console and place it somewhere else? The other person may be a co-worker. That means she plans to eat out for lunch.

There is nothing wrong with that, we all do that. But when the behavior is secretive and lacks transparency…something is wrong. Your spouse comes home and has to do the laundry of everything they wore that day. Even though there is no accumulation of dirty laundry on hand, they will still wash those items. And of course……as soon as the laundry begins, they head straight to the shower. Begin to watch your spouse in the mornings and when you return home later that day.

Did they change their hair? If they do kiss and embrace do they smell like they just recently showered and brushed their teeth? Sex decreases or stops all together. They roll over as far as possible and sleep on their side of the bed. They get up and spend part of the night on the couch. They once slept partially or fully nude, but now they are clothed from head to toe.

The sex is different. They believe they are too smart for you to catch them. She eats off your table, sleeps in your bed, drives a car that you provided, enjoys a nice home, and………….. She knows that the day she comes clean, her gravy train is over. She knows how you feel about adultery. Why would she risk everything by telling you? The moment she knows…that you know…. Plan your exit strategy and execute it. There is someone else who will love you and allow you to love them.

Cheaters are as systematic as bank robbers. They plan their rendezvous and cover all bases. If your spouse is cheating, she knows at some point she has to make a choice. If she chooses you, the chiasm will be there until she comes clean. If she comes clean, she risks you leaving. She will want money, support and possibly the house. She will make sure that everything is in order before she makes a move. She will open credit card and independent bank accounts.

She may increase her work hours to save and store money. She may decrease her work to get more money from you in the divorce. She may suddenly want to sale items or assets. Whatever she does, she will not just get up one morning out of the blue and tell you that she wants a divorce. She had that day in planning for at least six months to a year! Because they want their cake and ice cream in their selfish mouth at the same time. Must they lie, cheat, steal and betray the innocent spouse in such a cruel way, and then afterward rape them financially during the divorce?

It gave me the opportunity to release my frustration and pain. Hopefully some of the personal things that I have shared will help others who have experienced the ultimate betrayal. This is my first time on this site and realized my husband is doing everything it mebtions in the beginning. God bless, I hope you find a wonder woman that loves you as you do her. I just confronted my bf of 14 yrs after discovering his cheating on facebook. He was dumb enough to give me his password. I honestly don feel out of control and consumed with rage mainly I feel calm but get small pangs of anger when I think about it.

Maybe I feel numb because our relationship has been unhappy for last 6 months or so and I have tried to emotionally detach myself because of our arguing in this time. I only found out he was cheating last night. At the moment he is holed up in his room we have seperate rooms and trying to pretend he is asleep but I know he will be frantically trying to think up a story to get himself out of it. What a foolish lady. How can I ever trust him again? Just another sad statistic is what our relationship has become.

Being a loyal dog for 14 yrs got me cheated on! My wife found a past friend on facebook. They started talking and texting each other. She always deleted the txt messages and cleared the phone logs. Later on she told me she was going to his work place to get some gift certificates for a gift basket.

She still says that is the only time they have met. Then I would ask her if she had contacted him since I asked her not to. She said she was just making a comment. She said they still had only met that one time. She then said that was the last time she had heard from him, and he never responded to the e-mail. But she had said that before. Also everytime we hear about people cheating on their spouse and getting someone pregnant she says, she is not going to judge them, people make mistakes. I just want to know for sure, but everytime I ask her she denies it.

Also I think they realy did stop speaking to each other. I get depressed about it, and my wife says she is sorry I feel that way, but she never cheated on me. Any advise would be great. Chad, this is what cheaters do. Then they try and make you out like your overly suspicious and controlling leaving you feel guilty. Facebook is known now to ruin many relationships and marriages. I could be wrong but it seems as you drove her underground or deeper down because she knows now your radar is on and you are focusing in on her moves.

If she is willing to come fwd and be honest and up front then you have nothing to worry about. You could monitor what she does electronically or you could have a PI follow her, schedule a trip out of town and have your PI on the job and see what happens. I would advise though that following your spouse or significant other can lead to disastrous consequences. You can put a VAR Variable Audio Recorder in places that she is known to frequent and then listen for things out fo the ordinary.

However, if you begin to hear her with someone else. Do not listen to it have a friend or someone you trust listen to it and tell you what is on it. Listening to something like that will eat you alive. Thanks for the advice, however I do not believe anything is going on anymore if it ever was. The guy she was talking and texting to has moved out of town and is no longer replying to her e-mails. She has agreed to take a lie detector test, should I peruse that or does her agreeing to submit to one mean it may have all been just a friendship.

Stop lying to yourself and making it so easy for her. She offered to do it as an empty gesture to get you off her back. It shows how little she actually thinks of you. Please treat yourself better than she treated you and ask her to take the test. The signs are true. I remembered how my wife acted suspiciously around me. She slept with a younger man.

I found out by dumb luck and she denied it to my face repeatedly. She planned to leave abruptly, blaming me for many things and basically labeling me as unworthy of her. Told her family and friends we were splitting because of all of my shortcomings, which she never communicated to me by the way, taking no responsibility for anything herself. She was still talking with the other man, planning on what they would do once she was finally free to do so. All the while maintaining that she loved me and implying if worked hard enough there was a chance I could earn her back. I was willing to forgive and keep trying if only she would admit it, proving she was remorseful.

She continued to profess her love for me but also continued lying to me with a straight face and also continued talking to the other man. She reluctantly admits to it and asks for a chance to regain my trust. That makes me worry more. I do want to give her a chance. I worry if she is a well hidden narcissistic sociopath, just really really naive or really really dumb. And if it even matters which of those it is.

It is possible she just got caught up in her own web of lies she weaved to save face infront if her family and friends, which is not as horrible. Can a couple actually get past something like this? Anyone out there even know of someone who has managed to rebuild a real relationship after not just the cheating but ongoing lies to the face? Financially, mentally and emotionally stable. Someone she can cling to and get the good life given to her on a platter.

But my head could be making that up. Should I make her my backup plan and accept one of the many standing invitations I have denied until this point? Is it possible to trust someone like thisagain. I can almost guarantee she has done this before. I would not be surprised if her parents are in on the game plan. I have found that this type of behavior runs in the family. Stop reading and start packing! They will clean you out. I lost 2 kids and by the time all is done almost a million dollars.

You will only regret more. There are millions of much more worthy, honest and loyal women out there. How about giving one of them a chance? What have you got to lose? Just a worthless, cheating, freeloading pile of crap. Not a bad thing to lose at all. I feel for you but trust me, even living alone the rest of your life is better than letting someone like this suck your life away. He told me a couple of months ago that she was someone he worked for out of college and that he was moving here.

She reconnected with him on LinkdIn, supposedly. He also let me know that she was a former stripper. I checked his phone the other night and saw a lot of calls that were exchanged between them at all hours. I asked him, point blank, what was going on. He said that he saw an opportunity to help her out, temporarily, until she found a job. So, he got his company to hire her for a month to do tasks around the office. He says he was afraid to tell me because I had reacted irrationally to him going to dinner with her the night she got into town.

He has lost 20lbs. He tells me there is nothing going on and that she is 10yrs older. He said although men are attracted to her, he is not. He says he sees her as a big sister. I am not sure what to think. He takes hours to answer my texts and he rarely answers or returns my phone calls. We have been fighting a lot over this situation.

He is there alone. The writing is on the wall. The question you have to ask yourself is are you going to allow someone to treat you like a used tissue or not. I have a gut feeling my wife had an affair in the past. I was taking care of two young girls at the time it happened and was affraid to look into it like I should. After that I realized that maybe her several hour shopping trips were more than that. There were also other signs, but nothing that told me she was definitely having an affair.

Is there any way to determine if your wife was having an affair in the past. Jon, the first thing I would do is communicate with your wife and see if there is any chance of you and her having an open and honest conversation. Tell her how you feel and let her know that you have these mixed feelings about her activity. Then, if you and her cannot come to any conclusion , I would then move to another phase and monitor her either in the car or at the house.

If she has a mobile smart phone you can install something like mspy or flexispy and track her locations and also listen in and record her in her natural surroundings. Though I would choose to do the tracking james bond stuff after all else fails. Always and I mean always try to engage your significant other and see what is going with them mentally and then you can begin to make informed decisions about how you wish to proceed. Also, some woman will out of desire to attract attention to themselves through such a disastrous issue will admit to an affair even if they never had one just to get you to pay attention to them.

Men do the same thing. My husband have been doing things too wierd to me just after our wedding. Could it be that he is cheating on me? His behavour, his coming home, his call making,his late out going and many things about him has change and am afraid something bad is going on behind my back. My wife has been acting weird for about a week. She is moody and absentminded. She refused to tell me anything.

On coincidence she quit her schooling on that same day. What she tells me is just not adding up. She keeps assuring me that she loves me, but for some reason, I think she is doing that to keep me at bay. Women love attention that anybody. Dont play yourself, she is cheating. If she is not hitting a lot of those wickets on this page then I firmly believe she maybe experiencing deeper issues. Remember woman are so much different from men.

Men are problem solvers, and woman just want to talk about problems but nine times out of ten dont want them solved they just want you to listen and support their emptional needs. I truely think your wife is in desperate need of your support and her attending therapy because she sounds clincally depressed.

For some reason she maybe scared to tell you her true feelings out of fear of rejection and getting worse. So look at what she is exhibiting to you: Woman also have a major decrease in libido when they become depressed and hate them selves for things that were not their fault at all. Sounds rediculous I know but this is a different mind than a mans that is driven by a larger amount of hormones we are not typically producing.

So unless she sees a professional their is nothing you can do to fix this emotional and hormonal imbalance she is having. I have been cheated on in the worse way and my ex had all the signs. Your wife is just showing signs she needs help, love, and your support. Try it might work. After all the lying, denying, sneaking and hiding….. Why is it that cheaters must be so cruel and heartless?

I suspect that my of 15 years is having an affair. After sharing my concerns about her behavioral patterns without outright accusing her , the anomalies simmer down for a while and then increase again. My wife knows how I feel about adultery. She has nothing to gain and everything to lose by coming clean. If I could leave tonight, I would, but there much planning that needs to take place. Although our expenses require both of our incomes at this time, as I began talking to my wife about my concerns regarding her behavior………she went in to her employer and worked out a schedule adjustment, cutting her back to part-time hours.

Either way, I lose! If it turns out that my wife is unfaithful, I will divorce her and move on. My marriage of 16 years with three boys aged 15,9 and 2. I t was a happy marriage with my husband treating me like a queen always. But my company had to transfer me to another town km away which meant to reside there. Unfortunately I noticed that when I come home my husband always come late in the night around 11 and 12 midnight. When I am not around 1 or 2 a. I confronted him about this but could always he was out with some friends.

Mind you he does not drink. One time I followed him to find out where and who is this lady because I knew a woman was involved guess what I found them our car packed at a certain house and I went and knocked and they opened for me. The rest is history but after that I told my husband why is he doing this and I even proposed that I am going out of the house and he refused and said he was to change.

But my situation is worse now he wont eat my food he seem confused and every night he goes to the woman and come back after three to four hours, and he continues to say he loves me. I love this man honestly but this heartless behavior is killing me. Nowadays he hardly calls, sometimes if I call he wont answer and later says he had left the phone in the car. My husband of 30 years spends all of his time down in the basement. You cant walk down there. There are field mice, dust and clutter for 23 years. He has a iPhone that he can check his email.

He is so secretive and leaves me with no money and stasthes all the cash in the basement. I have no clue who my husband is. For a long time I was always sick and vomiting. My friend mentioned that I may be poisoned. I have no family to run to or money to get a divorce. He made my meals cause I couldnt stand. But I rather not eat than have him prep the meals. You should contact someone who can help you in your area. I was thinking about getting a hold of you on my through, but this is my first time down here so… Other Woman: Then he basically asked for clarification on where she lives.

I tried talking to him about how much his lack of affection bothers me and how it makes me feel, and he seems receptive, but nothing changes — in fact it just keeps getting worse. And using the laundry as an excuse is a pretty sad excuse to me…. Wife and I have been married 15 years. Within the first year I caught her having an affair, and forgave and moved on.

About 3 years ago my cellphone broke and I had to use a temp one. I got off work early one day and went to pick up our younger son from preschool to save her the trip. I called her personal cell phone with no answer. While looking for it I came across a large number of texts between her and a friend of one of our neighbors I had no clue they were talking. I had read 2 of the texts which were innocent enough when she walked in and saw me holding her phone.

Later that night I asked to use her phone the next day, she said alright then went into the bathroom. I was going to check her phone then, but she took it in there with her. Then I asked why she deleted all his texts. She said to make room on her phone all the other texts from random people were still there… So the next morning I took the phone, got to work at about 5: I got in my office, emailed her and told her he texted and was accusing to her.

Am I way off base here? Actually you are spot on , the problem you put yourself in was you confronted to early without gathering evidence of her affair with this guy. I mean seriously dude, if she cheated on you once. I know I would.

Tighten up your game and dont let anyone walk all over you but also keep your cool and never ever loose your freedom because you are angry or hurt. Stay cool and focused. Best of luck mate. It is one of the most devestating things to see 21 years of a relationship start to dissipate -watching someone youve grown with and built a life with fade away-and the destruction of the home and plans for the future. Equally I hold people responsible who participate in it when they know the person is married, or committed to a realtionship.

People make mistakes but intentionally tearing down your family for an affair is senseless and cruel. For the ones left behind, get clear of the loser and dont take them back. The only people with any obligation are the ones who have an understanding with one another.

Even if the person lies and say they are single or divorce…at some point your will pick up a on that by their actions…..!!! Than you should get out……that lets you know the person is a liar…and they will continued on lie to you. Ive had 4 different dreams in the past 3 months the my wife has already cheated on me. I dont think this is random at all, What should I do?

He is so caught up on Facebook and is constantly Inboxing females then deletes them. I dont know what to do. Janie, I had the same thing happen to me with my wife and it ended with me finding out she was seeing an old BF from her teenage years! You have a few options and they are none easy. You can install monitoring software on his devices, or confront or show him how it feels. So, you have some decision making to do. Do some diligence and follow your gut instinct, if you search for the causes for most divorces this day and age you will see Facebook as the number one freakin cause.

This is an old thread so I hope to get a reply. Husband and I have been happily married for 8 years. We have had all the usual ups and downs but I never thought of him being unfaithful in any way. We moved and he started a new job in April this year.

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He is salaried so there is no documentation on checks. Anyway, earlier this month, I was on his FB. I play games on FB and use his to send things I need etc.

I noticed in the search, a woman I did not recognize. Her profile was public and she works with him. He had looked there at least 3 times that I could find. I asked him about it. He lied at first and said he thought I would tease him about it. Then he admitted that he liked her hair and that was the reason for looking. Hers is long, mine is short.

He said was ashamed and embarassed. My life has been hell for 3 weeks with wonders and suspicions but he swears he never did anything more and never planned to. He has seemed distracted and zoned out. I contributed it to tiredness. I was cheated on in a prior marriage.

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This is his first marriage. I sometimes feel I making too much of it then I sometimes think I am missing something. I have all his passwords and he never changes them or is obviously secretive. He has not been back on FB at all. Just feeling lost and looking for some guidance. If you dont want to lose him ask him what he likes, get open, ask him deep questions, give deep information. He is probably unsure of what he wants as he doesnt trust you, is struggling with attraction, is bored, etc. Reminisce about tough times and good times you had together so it jogs his memory.

Spice and depth should keep a relationship together. If the link is not there men look elsewhere. They want to feel they won the prize, or he will look for another prize. To all who read one thing about a women they snakes in the grass. I know from my own experience that I forgot the meaning of that song.

A couple years ago my wife and I separated but reconciled a few months later. Check on their bills, as they may be spending more than they should on this other person. Holiday, dinners, shopping bills that do not include your expenses, can actually be the expenses of the other person.

Moreover, giving random or vague explanations, or overreacting and getting furious when asked about these expenses, can be a cause of worry. Ever heard the saying, "Once a cheater, always a cheater. If your partner has an awful past, and has been cheating on everyone they have been with, you may not be an exception.

Maybe they have commitment problems, or lying and cheating is just their nature. Also, it might be a possibility, that an unsuccessful relationship of the past, has come back into his life. When someone knows they are wrong, and they are questioned about it, they tend to get defensive. They may either play the victim by blaming themselves for obvious things they haven't done, or overreact to the questions you ask them.

They may answer your questions by asking other questions, or try to give you the feeling that you have created a big blunder by thinking that way about them. They try to show that you are the one at fault, and send you on a guilt trip. An emotional affair might also be carried on with the help of the Internet. If you want to trace it, look for some suspicious and unnatural behavior. For example, he would sit in the corner, or with his back facing the wall. He might also unnecessarily start working on the computer, under the excuse of 'office.

If he constantly talks about this woman at work or at the gym, addressing her as just a friend, there may be something more to it. When you go for parties or any social gatherings, observe your man's behavior with other women. If you find him flirty or too clingy with them, throwing his behavior away as a joke, there is a thick chance that he is cheating on you. Most women are known for their traits of jealousy and insecurity. If she is cheating, she may not be jealous or insecure about you anymore. On the contrary, there are chances that she might start doubting you with other women, too.

This is because she thinks if she can cheat, so can you. She will bother more about her looks and act as if she is sixteen again. She will also try to act like she is too good for you, and that she deserves someone better. She may nag you about everything possible, and focus on your negatives. Through her this behavior, she is only trying to justify why she is not wrong if she is cheating. If she is cheating, her priorities will change.

Her attention will get divided between your kids or your house and the new man in her life. Her frequency of 'time with the girls', will increase considerably. Before you draw any conclusion, it is better to talk things out with your partner first. There are thick chances of you being a victim of a huge misunderstanding. Sit down and talk things out first. Put things across in a mild way, in order to sound concerned, and not doubtful.

Also, keep this conversation between the two of you, and avoid involving your friends, folks or kids in it. This would probably be the most difficult thing to do. If you have found out that your partner has been cheating on you and you have enough evidence of it, confront your partner.

You will have to be strong and calm yourself before confronting your partner. Show them the evidence, and try sorting things out with them. Ask them to reason out their actions. Forgiving them for what they did, or not, is entirely your decision. If she devotes more attention to you when the two of you are together, she can momentarily make herself feel better about what she does when you aren't around.

Pay attention to her phone habits. This can be a bit tricky since many women naturally spend a lot of time on the phone. If your wife suddenly spends more time talking or texting, though, or if she hangs up as soon as you enter the room, these habits could suggest that she's talking to someone new in her life whom she does not want you to know about. Try asking your wife about the phone calls she receives, especially if she leaves the room to take them or quickly hangs up when you walk in.

Gauge whether or not her response seems truthful or if she is trying to make an excuse for who was on the other end of the line. You should also pay attention to other changes in her calling habits, including the frequency of calls, time of day, and tone of voice she uses. Determine if your wife is nit-picking. Many husbands may already think that their wives nag them, but if your wife is becoming even more critical of your behavior than usual, she might be looking for ways to justify the affair to herself.

If your wife suddenly acts as though nothing you do is right in her eyes, there are considerable problems in your relationship, even if your wife is not cheating on you. On the other hand, it could also be a bad sign if your wife "nags" at you less. If you have given your wife a good reason to stop nagging by improving the traits she often criticized you for or by being more attentive, less nagging can be great. If you have not changed your behavior, though, and she becomes less critical of you, it could be a sign that she has become indifferent toward you, which could mean that she's getting emotional fulfillment from another source.

Take note of any changes in sexual behavior. You might expect your wife to show less interest in you sexually if she starts cheating on you. While this can be the case in some instances, just as often, wives will seem more interested in sex than before. Wanting more sex can be your wife's way of alleviating the guilt she has for cheating on you. If your wife wants more sex, it could also be a sign that she is having an emotional affair and using you to satisfy her sexual desire for a man she cannot have in bed.

On the other hand, if you had a healthy enough sex life before and the flames suddenly die out between you, it could indicate that she is fulfilling her sexual desires with someone else. On instinct, humans avoid eye contact with others when they feel guilty or when they have a secret to hide. Try to make eye contact with your wife throughout the day. If she is cheating, there is a good chance that she will turn away more often than not. This is especially important when you ask her about where she has been, who she's been with, and what she has been doing.

Since she will need to come right out and lie to you if she does not want to admit to cheating, she will find it much harder to look you in the eye than she normally would. Note how much time she spends on the computer. Nowadays, the computer is used as a means of communication just as often as the phone is. If your wife spends more of her evenings on the computer and becomes defensive when you ask about it, she might be sending emails or communicating via social media with someone she hopes you won't find out about.

Take a glance at your wife's Internet history when she is not around to see.

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If her history has been erased, consider that to be a red flag and a sign that there was something there she did not want you to see. Remember that cell phones are the most commonly-used computer. Ask to see her phone. If she is defensive, it could be a sign that she is hiding something there.

If you do have access to the phone, consider applications that might indicate cheating, such as Ashley Madison, Tinder or other dating apps. Social apps like Skype, Snapchat, Kik or WhatsApp may be ways that she is hiding her communication with another man, especially if the history in these apps is always deleted. Review the cell phone bill. Most carriers provide detailed calling records.

Look for unfamiliar numbers that are dialed or used for texting frequently. Consider using reverse phone lookup services such as spydialer. Consider evasive behavior as a bad sign. As a general rule, if your wife suddenly begins sharing fewer details about her day and her thoughts, she might be hiding something or getting the emotional support she needs from another source.

Women are rarely secretive unless they have a good reason to be. They are generally more inclined to open up about their thoughts and feelings than men are, and while husbands may hold back in an effort to avoid what they perceive as "nagging," wives rarely demonstrate the same behavior.

Note a change in her appearance. The longer a couple stays married, the more both spouses tend to let themselves go. If your wife suddenly dyes her hair and spruces herself up, she might be trying to make herself look good for someone new. Women usually try to look their absolute bests at the start of a new relationship, so if your wife is suddenly making considerably more effort in terms of her appearance, it stands to reason that there might be a new relationship in her life.

Note, however, that there is some chance that your wife could be doing this for your benefit. If she senses a lack of heat or chemistry between the two of you and wants to remedy the problem, she might try to make herself seem more appealing to you. Watch out for shopping sprees. Take a good look at what she brings home in her shopping bags. If she buys new clothes in excess, she might be trying to show them off to someone—especially if those clothes are revealing or if she buys more lingerie.

A big sign can be if your wife is buying sexy lingerie but not wearing them in your bedroom, or if she is buying attractive clothes but never wearing them in front of you. Pay attention if she starts working out at the gym.

If your wife takes a sudden interest in shaping up even though she never showed much desire to do so before, she might be trying to make her body look more appealing to a new guy in her life. Understand, of course, that this is not necessarily a dead giveaway. She might genuinely be trying to get herself in shape for valid reasons, especially if her doctor has recently informed her about possible health risks, if a favorite dress no longer fits, or if the new year just started and working out is on her list of resolutions.

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