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There are a number of other signs that can indicate your spouse is more likely to cheat, and some are shocking. It is claimed that Christians are more likely to be caught cheating.
Followers of Christianity are more likely to be unfaithful in their marriages than atheists, IllicitEncounters. What is more, a whopping 90 per cent of women cheat who have two parents that have had extra marital affairs. Others are more subtle, including sleeping more soundly and doing their own washing.
However, some cheating signs are not behaviours at all, but physical attributes. Is your wife having an affair?
This is especially important when you ask her about where she has been, who she's been with, and what she has been doing. Since she will need to come right out and lie to you if she does not want to admit to cheating, she will find it much harder to look you in the eye than she normally would.
Note how much time she spends on the computer.
Nowadays, the computer is used as a means of communication just as often as the phone is. If your wife spends more of her evenings on the computer and becomes defensive when you ask about it, she might be sending emails or communicating via social media with someone she hopes you won't find out about. Take a glance at your wife's Internet history when she is not around to see. If her history has been erased, consider that to be a red flag and a sign that there was something there she did not want you to see.
If your wife wants more sex, it could also be a sign that she is having an emotional affair and using you to satisfy her sexual desire for a man she cannot have in bed. Cheating wife husband or girlfriend signs include what party they vote for. More to it than Sex Submitted by Salary driven on January 18, - No, these women cheat because for whatever reason they want to stay married kids, money, Love, shame and they want it badly enough to lie to and betray their husbands. Everything I did that with her is becoming a problem now.
Remember that cell phones are the most commonly-used computer. Ask to see her phone. If she is defensive, it could be a sign that she is hiding something there. If you do have access to the phone, consider applications that might indicate cheating, such as Ashley Madison, Tinder or other dating apps.
Social apps like Skype, Snapchat, Kik or WhatsApp may be ways that she is hiding her communication with another man, especially if the history in these apps is always deleted. Review the cell phone bill. Most carriers provide detailed calling records. Look for unfamiliar numbers that are dialed or used for texting frequently. Consider using reverse phone lookup services such as spydialer. Consider evasive behavior as a bad sign. As a general rule, if your wife suddenly begins sharing fewer details about her day and her thoughts, she might be hiding something or getting the emotional support she needs from another source.
Women are rarely secretive unless they have a good reason to be. They are generally more inclined to open up about their thoughts and feelings than men are, and while husbands may hold back in an effort to avoid what they perceive as "nagging," wives rarely demonstrate the same behavior. Note a change in her appearance. The longer a couple stays married, the more both spouses tend to let themselves go. If your wife suddenly dyes her hair and spruces herself up, she might be trying to make herself look good for someone new.
Women usually try to look their absolute bests at the start of a new relationship, so if your wife is suddenly making considerably more effort in terms of her appearance, it stands to reason that there might be a new relationship in her life. Note, however, that there is some chance that your wife could be doing this for your benefit. If she senses a lack of heat or chemistry between the two of you and wants to remedy the problem, she might try to make herself seem more appealing to you. Watch out for shopping sprees. Take a good look at what she brings home in her shopping bags. If she buys new clothes in excess, she might be trying to show them off to someone—especially if those clothes are revealing or if she buys more lingerie.
A big sign can be if your wife is buying sexy lingerie but not wearing them in your bedroom, or if she is buying attractive clothes but never wearing them in front of you. Pay attention if she starts working out at the gym. If your wife takes a sudden interest in shaping up even though she never showed much desire to do so before, she might be trying to make her body look more appealing to a new guy in her life. Understand, of course, that this is not necessarily a dead giveaway.
She might genuinely be trying to get herself in shape for valid reasons, especially if her doctor has recently informed her about possible health risks, if a favorite dress no longer fits, or if the new year just started and working out is on her list of resolutions. Take note of how often she showers "at the gym.
A cheating wife will often shower before she greets you at home to cover the scent of the other man. Most spouses get accustomed to the way their counterparts smell. If I find another man's clothes in my house, is that a sign that my wife is cheating on me? If the clothes don't belong to your or anyone that lives in your house, then how would they have gotten there? Do you have children?
Ask them if they know whose clothes they are. If it's only you and your wife living together, then chances are she knows who they belong to. Not Helpful 7 Helpful The topic of cheating is difficult for everyone to address, but if you think your wife is cheating, you have to talk about it. Don't candy coat anything, but don't be aggressive. Be prepared for whatever response she gives. Not Helpful 20 Helpful This could be a simple act of wanting to spend more time with you uninterrupted.
Or she could be hiding something. Try to pick up on other signs that could indicate something is going on. If there are none, you probably shouldn't worry. Not Helpful 3 Helpful If your wife suddenly isn't allowing you to see her phone, it should be addressed. Express your concerns with her and tell her how it makes you feel when she does it. Ask why she feels the secrecy is necessary, and let her know it is creating suspicion and mistrust in your marriage. Not Helpful 11 Helpful I'm sure these facts are convincing enough to be cautious of a cheating spouse. Cheating wife signs are difficult to spot at the initial stage, so let me give you a brief about the signs that can be noticed right at the initial stage of infidelity.
There are lesser probabilities of a woman cheating on her man, as compared to those in case of men. A woman will rarely cheat just for sexual pleasure.
She is more likely to have an emotional attachment with her lover. Since a woman is more likely to have an emotional affair, she will fall for a man in her social circle - an old friend, a co-worker, a distant friend etc. A woman will give more importance to her love affair since it is most likely to be an emotional one. In case of a one night stand, woman will always cheat for a better looking man.
A woman is also likely to believe in revenge cheating, because once in her marriage, her man cheated on her. She turns experimental in bed. One of the best indicators of a cheating wife is her behavior in bed. She will either stay away from having sex with you or she might seem to be wanting more of it all of a sudden. She might get very experimental in bed, if she used to be shy and conservative with you earlier. She gives you loads of space. Earlier, your wife may have been naggy almost all the time, checking your messages, often calling you at work, trying hard to be in your social circle, and suddenly she starts giving you tons of space out of nowhere!
Before feeling happy about getting so much space, let me warn you that this is one of the major signs of cheating in a relationship. The fact that she has started giving you a lot of space suddenly indicates her own desire of having a personal space in which you have no place. A woman who is giving her husband, a lot of space will always expect the same in return to ensure safety while she is cheating on her husband.
If she becomes secretive about her work schedule, her new friends, her daily goings-on and secures her mobile phone and her laptop secretively like the security in front of The White House, she's probably cheating on you. She might go out to meet her lover secretively and might give you an excuse that she went shopping which you are not so interested in.
She might also get secretive about her clothes and make up. She will always try to look good and attractive. She might smile secretively while watching TV, because she has been thinking of her lover. She feels no jealousy or anger. You already have a gut feeling that something is wrong in your relationship. Your inner instincts have already started feeling the insecurity and that made you make your wife feel jealous by praising or talking to another woman.
Did this turn out to be futile because she did not feel any jealously or anger? It's a sure sign that your wife is cheating on you! She suddenly becomes doting.