How to know if ur husband is cheating

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Samantha- I read your story. You had faith, it was broken. You gave him the benefit of the doubt, that was thrown in your face. Are you waiting for a sex tape to arrive at your house? You seem like a kind trusting person. You would not do those things to him! Trust me, there is a man for you.

Move on and leave him behind. I am in a VERY similar situation: I thought we were so perfect together, he was my safe place and my best friend. About a month before our 1 year anniversary I caught him lying about something. I was so deviated. In that moment in felt like the man I had loved had just died..

I still feel like this is cheating either way. But my trust for him is gone, and so is the beautiful relationship I thought we had. Are you going to stay with your husband? My story is a little different. A married man took advantage of me 3 year ago. It started as normal as can be. We both live in the same building. I live for 39 he 23 years. I first saw him 20 plus years, never spoken to each other. Then about 4 years ago, I was telling a joke to my other neighbors and there he was laughing…I introduced myself to him.

There is and was nothing going on between us but a friendship…well I thought. We spent many hours talking and spare life stories. Little did I know, he was waiting for the right moment to assault me. U see I kind of know his wife, and went to high school with his sis-in-law. I could walk away from this and just take it a misunderstanding..

He is chronic liar and a cheater. I always ask him to take a test.. I waiting and waiting until Feb 21, I told his wife. His wife called me a liar and everything on the book. He was force to tell his wife and the polices his affairs, his one nightstands and what he did to me…After all this, do I regret telling his wife…NO. First, I wanted to put him and every man like him in his place. And second I wanted to hurt him and if it means going through his wife, then YES. Half of my neighbors have known he was cheating for years.

I in therapy…As far as I know the wife still with him, knowing he cheats. He takes care of her by paying her rent and etc. There are women out there like his wife who are blind and stupid…I was stupid for 3 years,,,where his wife over 23 years…why she and other stay is the answer I would like to know…. I was also taken advantage of when I was in a VERY vulnerable position, just experienced a lot of major trauma, huge losses my entire family , he hurt my grown son, etc. I was devastated from losing my whole family! He got VERY ugly, snapped, etc. It was at a horrendous time too when Is just been dealt another loss!

How cruel I thought! I was doubled over in severe emotional paun, crying out to God! Sweet Pea, It gives me some comfort knowing I not alone. He is not a nice man. It was all his fault. I come from a difference race. But I prove him wrong. And if hurting him means going through his wife I will…. My husband has been working for the past month from Sunday to Sunday.

For the first time he stayed out the whole night and lied where he were. We have a three year old daughter together. I prayed with someone else where two or more are together Jesus is in the midst. She was mad and threatening to tell me. I that affair started when I was pregnant and I found out when our son was 15 months old.

Such a smart response. I have prayed that too and God has revealed it when it needed to be, every time! You are absolutely right! I to prayed That The Lord would reveal to me what I needed to know! I found the texts and my world collapsed! Out of all the nights to check and all of the times he deleted texts before coming home, this one night, he forgot.

Everytime he goes to visit them.

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I confronted him n he denied saying she meant before I came into his life. Some months passed and one day she called saying she was pregnant again…he became moody. He took me outside on a stroll…we talked and he said he was sorry about wat he had to tell me. He told me that when he went there he drank with her and her friend…n became drunk. This took him months to tell me. I feel he lied about everything. Nothing against you more against them. Yes he made the whole story up. Tell her the story he told you and it will piss her off and she will tell everything.

My husband was texting a female at work all night, I asked who the woman was and he said it was an older woman from another line he works in a large assembly plant. I asked to see the text and he deleted them. So, I called the number and it was a female his age. Come to find out this lady had left her husband a few yrs ago for another man at the plant and he works the opposite shift as them. She was also pentecostal and stopped wearing skirts, started wearing make up and cut her hair.

I called her and acted like he was sitting there, she tells me they are just really good friends and that she was telling him she was done meaning done being friends with him. She also said they met up at a parking lot where a lot of people go to hang out and drink after work at around 2 or 3 am when they get off work. She swore nothing sexual but all she cared about was her boyfriend who works the other shift and was very defensive. I told him no and that if he talks to her without me around I was leaving, I said you have the entire weekend to call her with me sitting right here.

I just felt like that if he was really that mad he would have called her. My husband went away on business the same weekend i took our daughters on a shopping trip, but my gut told me different. He has a history of lying to me but thought he had stopped. I found strange underware but we all joked it off. He geta defensive when I ask small questions. Coverststions are less, sex gas gone from 2 times a day to, once every 3 months. No hand holding no romance pretty much nothing!!! He owns his own business and ends his day at the same place before coming everyday another womans business.

I have confronted him several times, showed up there once that was a bad idea he got so upset. He gets very defensive when i bring anything up. I have seen flirtations in emails to and from other women that he denies. I tell him I love him. I do little special things for him. Not to walk away thinking what if i was wrong, did I just give up. There are a lot of financial issues as well that could be keeping him here I think thats the only glue.

Please help by telling me what you think! I waited 30 years,same shit,now go running. Why are you wasting what is left of your youth on a man who is interested in other women? You will find another man, someone who wants only you. You know it and he knows you know it.

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You are worth so much more than this!!! You can do it. Vickie, you already know honey. He is treating you disrespectably. At this point, anything you endure is your own fault. I know that sounds harsh, but you know better. Your belly is screaming at you. That means leaving him and not allowing it. If you have children, you do not want to show them this as an acceptable way to treat people, or allow yourself to be treated. You are worth more.

That means act as if, fake it til you make it. Once you get through that you will feel good and be empowered. I sat it all the time, but remember this. It is so important. And we are blessed with 22months old son. If i say i understand whats happening in my marriage now am lying.

I cant even say i understand my husband anymore. He lies so much that it piss me off all the time. Well, to cut the long story short, i believed him and we moved on. When i confronted him, He accepted and told me it was the daughter of a male colleague at work, when i investigated, it was another lie. The daughter actually belong to one whom he has actually been talking to over the phone.

Am just tired and i dont know what else to do. Am contemplating ending the marriage. Abiola- I feel bad for you, but the writing is crusty on the wall. The man is trying like Hell to cheat on you. AND you caught him lying over and over… Why is he lying? Dont wait till he leaves for someone else! Get rid of him. Hello folks, reading many thoughts of. Cheaters just make me sick. Been there, had husband of 13yrs cheat on me. BS, she was calling him all hrs of night, evening…… wow how stupid I was. Sure some where calls i heard radio traffic, but after it was over several hours later not home.

Then when he did get home it was jump in shower, well i read that you can tell if man had sex especially in hurry to leave gf, check underwear for late ejectuation. Yup, white crud in underwear, but i couldnt prove it. Than took job out of state and he insisted that i go. When furloughed , wow eye opener i got. Went to use my lap top and he was on earlier but due to a fire call, oopsie he forgot to log out! And what i found; all the naked pictures of her in his email, his IM on fb with more naked pictures of her in my house, pictures at her house saying if her family found out she is done.

Well being pissed i took those pictures printed out , mailed to her husband, her neighbors all on fire department who helped lie for him. Few weeks into it her husband dyes of cancer, her son disowned her and my husband said he didnt do anything and is innocent. Hmmm , i find bs. Well i went to counseling, tried to turn other cheek, live what bible says about forgiveness ,we even MOVED out of state.

Been two years and he is starting to lie to me and our son. Talks rude disrespectful and down grade. My son begs me wait til he is in mid teens to leave his father, but am so misable. I can dance naked on the bed in front of him, dont do anyghing, bring out my toy he dont care, what do i need to do to let him know am here?

The open and honest communication you and your husband are having now is awesome. He is learning about emotional affairs, and you are learning how to recognize and talk about the signs a husband is cheating. This is excellent growth — you and he and moving forward in your relationship. I hope you can see and appreciate this, because focusing on your growth and communication will help you and him get closer.

Thank you for your comments. He does not want to go to counseling. Thinks we can work on this together and tells me that I can go if I want to. He says he has told me everything after initially lieing. He is remorseful at hurting me and our marriage. I try to tell myself if he wanted to be with that other woman, he would just leave me. I have been with my man for 8 years and married for two. In October of , I went on a five day vacation with my daughter. I asked him who this was.

That it must of been attached to a junk email he got. A week later, because I found an unknown name in his address book of his email and asked him who it was, he confessed that it was the girl in that picture. I cried and cried. He told me that a few days before I left for vacation, this girl called him at work leaving a message that she was in town and that he could stop by to see her. He said he had worked with this girl many years ago and they were friends then. He admitted after dropping me off at the airport, he went to work on his day off, listened to her voicemail to retrieve her number.

He admitted he called her the next day. They talked and he said he told her that he would stop by when he was working if he could. Two days after he returned to work and stopped at her relatives house where she was. He told me that she asked if they could stay in touch. He gave her his email address. He admitted she emailed him for the next four weeks and he would answer her back. He admitted he told her not to email on his days off or at night because he would be with me.

That leads to the day he accidentally autosaved a picture she sent him and I found it. He tells me it was the only picture she ever sent. She was fully clothed, just a selfie of herself. He admitted he deleted the emails as they came in. We talked and came to the determination together that our marriage had some problems and that if he was happier in our marriage, maybe he would of not decided to allow this to happen. She sought him out.

He swears they only had a friendship and is not nor ever was attracted to her sexually. He said he never got that feeling from her either. He said during the week he lied to me about the picture, he was trying to figure out how to tell me. He said that during the time he and she were emailing, he felt guilty because he knew it was wrong and was going to let it phase out because it seem to be. So, he only ended it the day I found the picture. He told me this that day a week later when I found her name in his address book. He said he emailed her afterward telling her I found the picture and they would not be contacting or emailing anymore.

The day he confessed, I asked him to email her in front of me so I could see how they interacted. He wrote just hi to her. She replied asking him how is he emailing her from that email. He replied by asking why. That response made me feel like maybe they were just friends. He told me he secretly emailed an old friend for 4 weeks, but did not see her in person other than that one time. He said he never kissed all the way to sex with her.

I went through with it anyway. All came up negative. He tells me he knows he lied when I first found the picture, but has since told me everything and is being honest. He has sincerely told me he loves me, is still in love with me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. He seems to be telling the truth, but why do I still feel unsure? I am consumed in what happened. I want to stay with him, but am afraid he did sleep with this woman.

Hi Kim, I recently had a very similar experience with my long term boyfriend 13 years. I feel like I have gone insane. I was reading these articles and I ran into your comment. It hit me straight in my stomach. But at the same time, how can I be overreacting? I feel tormented by this. Listen to your gut. Elisa said that she had a weird feeling, and she found her husband viewing the profile of another woman on Facebook. She trusted her gut — her intuition — and she was right.

What is your gut telling you about what you should do next? Write down the answers. Well my situation continues to spiral downwards. There were favors involved working her shifts. I recently learned that he kept track of the days he saw her by drawing smiley faces in his calendar.

When I asked why there were none for me he said it was because we are married and I am home everyday. He admitted to me that four months ago when he learned she would be transferring to another site he bought her a small gift — a necklace. It was not expensive but he made sure he took money out of our bank account to purchase it behind my back. I think its progress that he admitted to this and did so as an attempt to save our marriage. We are in therapy — just started — but I am not sure that I can bear the pain of this deception and all. He was able in therapy to admit to an attraction but to say its mostly a mentor relationship.

He maintains this woman is in no way, shape or form interested in him. I used to think I was in therapy because of how my parents treated me, or because my wife was emotionally abusive, or because she had cheated on me, etc, etc. I had ignored my gut for so long that it had gotten sick so to speak. It will get you to where you are supposed to be. I have been married for 18 years.

I spent a week home with my husband and things seemed good. When he returned to working his night shift, I had a weird feeling and felt compelled to check his Facebook. When I checked the history, I saw he had been viewing the profile of a 28 year old woman he works with he is The pictures on her profile were all bikini pictures.

I confronted him the next day about this and he admitted he had a crush on her but that nothing happened between them. I was devastated because he was checking out her photos one night while I was asleep. He also admitted that he had been regularly deleting his FB history but that he was careless this one time and forgot to do it.

He has told me he cares about her because she gets into trouble she is a real gem — married, has a coworker boyfriend and has been through six men at work already. It bothered me because up until this incident, I thought he only had eyes for me. He also admitted that this crush of his has been for about a year. I decided to forgive him and he decided to deactivate his Facebook.

I checked his laptop and saw that he has reactivated his FB account several times. The history has probably been cleared again. I know men are visual creatures. Do I confront him about the reactivation? I feel like I cant win here. He does seem to genuinely like me just not sure how much. I see him usually 1 week a month, sometimes 2. Two months ago, I got a bad feeling in my gut, the kind I had in one past relationship where my ex cheated on me.

He seemed much more emotionally in tune with her then with me from what I could tell and he also knew her long before he met me. On the other hand something still feels off. Any advice would be appreciated. I also want to add that he does talk about a future with me. He talks about me going back to his country with him to visit and to meet his family. Also he texts me x a day and has ever since we met. Hi, He is a man who is a cheater aka; player.

He is using you any way he can. If your relationship with him were in a safe situation you wouldnt even be questioning his behavior you would know right off the top of your head if he were crazy in love with you. Say good bye, change the locks go see a nice psychologist who can lift up your spirits while you are sad about this. So you can move on and steer clear of losers like this. Trust your inner feelings, you will find in the end you were right. You have to protect Yourself, as he seems to be giving you mixed feelings.

You are the one that counts the most, never let anyone take advantage of you. About 3 months ago on a Thursday morning at 7: He looks over to see who was calling and got up and redialed the number. He then walked off into another room. When he came back I asked who was he talking with and he said the sister of someone we know well. And he grinned and said she had knee surgery and he had called to see how she was doing. And I said what did she want and he said she was just returning the call. She works at the hospital where he works as a cashier in the cafeteria.

He had introduced her to me about a year previous to this incident and gave me her name and said she was the brother of the person we both know. In is when he began to ask me if I knew her and I told him I did not. I only know the brother and a couple other sisters of his. Well one evening he came home after their father died and asked me if I was going to the wake. I told him no, because I did not know her father like that. He said well lets go, I know her and you know her brother. Lets go and support them. Both times this lady never opened her mouth to me.

She just looked at me and said nothing both times. I think she forgot he was not at work when she placed that Thursday Morning call. Had she not placed that call I never would Have questioned him about this woman. He told me he had known her for over thirty years and we have been married for 49 years. It bothered me that he did not mention this to me when we were introduced and I knew nothing of this woman the whole time we have been married.

I told him he should have wished her good luck on her last day at work with her surgery and that should have been it. I asked him how many men who come through that line everyday called her to see how she was doing and they probably have been knowing her just as long or longer than he has. I think there is something sinister going on here.

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I checked his phone and he had deleted the calls to and from her from his phone but I found them on the internet bill. There were three calls and he said he only called her once. I think if this woman is such a good friend of his I should have known this years ago since she came into our lives after we were married. After I got married I had no male friends because he accused me of going with every man I came in contact with.

And he has his phone on him all the time, sometimes he leaves without telling me and his excuse is that his walking the dogs but when I call him while his walking the dogs it seems like his in the beach bathroom all the time we live right next to the beach. His been acting different lately. When I try to ask him about him cheating, he calls me crazy or a dumb ass. He Denies it and try to cover it up. Please give me advice thank u. My husband did the same sort of things to me and he was definitely cheating.

Believe me, he is feeding you a bunch of bunk. I am sorry this is happening, but you are very young and have your whole life ahead. I had two small children, too, and I moved on from me cheating husband. I will pray for God to give you strength.

I hope you have family close who can help you make a new start. You are worth it!! Much prayers and good luck!! Krizen, you have a few problems here. I was in the same situation with my wife many years ago. You deserve to be treated better, and with honesty and respect.

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The other problem you have is that you are dependent on this man. I would consider trying to make other arrangements. If you have family or friends that can help and be supportive in the meantime while you try and get things together so that you can stand on your own 2 feet, that is something you should really consider. Trust me, what this dumbasses doing is just one little page in the entire book of your life.

Your well-being is not dependent on this man, nor should it to be. I hope you do. I know change can be scary but sometimes we have to walk through that fear to get something good on the other side. You need anything else or any other device or want to contact me just let me know. Hi Mr Tommy D. However, he has cheated on me five times now. He cheated and a month later he moved to another city.

Theresa, Sweetie, you are wasting your time. At least if you want something exclusive with this man. He is not behaving in any way that should gain your confidence. Trust your belly honey. Why are you wasting your time with him? Show a man love, faith, warmth, hard work and he will follow you. You are a woman, you have control in the end. Act like you are worth more than how he treats you. With time, you will feel it I promise. Dear H, Yes, who did you hire?

I walked into my husbands office unexpectedly and saw his phone under a file. At first I thought nothing of it. So if your friend can do it again please let me know. We have been married for 16 years. We both have had infidelity issues in the past but we have worked on them and moved on. I found out I had an std while I was pregnant, and the doctor gave him and I medication to get rid of the std.

I am pregnant again, and my husband insists we use condoms. If we have been cleared before, and I am pregnant, why use condoms? My instincts tell me that he may be cheating… but I cant figure out how he would have the time. In fact, this problem almost always involves another woman, and is a serious sign of trouble. Yes No I need help 26 He begins dressing differently. Men don't often change their styles.

If he likes jeans and a polo shirt, that's likely going to be his style forever. So, if you notice that he's traded in his jeans for a pair of dockers, or his usually conservative polo shirt for a printed t-shirt with a rock band logo on it, you might have a cheating husband on your hands. Men only change the way they dress when it serves a purpose, which in this case is pleasing another woman.

Yes No I need help 27 He starts caring more about how he looks. Grooming and hygiene patterns change. If your man used to be OK with slightly messed up hair, or half of a shave, and he's now carefully grooming himself, it's obviously not to impress you. In fact, one of the most obvious signs your husband is cheating on you is when he starts improving his personal hygiene and grooming habits. Don't ignore this, as it's an indication of a husband looking to please or impress another woman. Yes No I need help 28 His overall appearance has changed. This one is harder to spot, but it bears mention because it's usually a sign of problems that lead to an affair, rather than the actual affair.

Sometimes, when your husband isn't happy, he'll start making little changes, and the shift from outgoing to conservative, or conservative to outgoing, is one of them. If you see this, talk to him, before he gets tangled up in an affair that could destroy your marriage.

Yes No I need help 29 His tastes in music change. Not that many wives notice this one, because many times their husbands can have some strange tastes in music. However, if your classic rock loving husband starts listening to Tecno, there's a reason.

Sometimes it is just be because he likes it, but more often, it's because the woman he's cheating on you with likes that style of music. He either wants to make her happy, or is pleasantly reminded of her while jamming out to the latest step. Yes No I need help 30 He starts visiting art exhibits or enjoying trips to museums. This one might seem a little funny at first, until you learn about the young art student your husband has taken an interest in, or the history major who has enchanted him with welcoming smiles and tales of ancient Rome.

If he starts finding interest in things he previously had no interest in, it's a sure sign that another woman has his interest. Take note, and steer him away from infidelity. Yes No I need help 31 He starts attending office parties and social events he used to avoid. Everyone knows the jokes about office parties, and let's be honest, they're usually pretty true. So, when your husband suddenly starts attending them, it probably has something to do with the new girl in the office. If you aren't invited, it almost certainly has something to do with her.

This is a sure sign of trouble in your relationship. Yes No I need help 32 The level of attention he gives you drastically changes. If your normally passionless man suddenly becomes a charming powerhouse of passion, enjoy it, but pay very close attention to him. Likewise, if your man of endless passion suddenly turns cold, take that as a warning sign too. He's likely either giddy with joy in another woman's arms, or he's gone cold because she's taking all that heat and keeping it for herself.

Yes No I need help 33 He suddenly develops an interest in a new language. This isn't usually something that younger wives need to worry about. It's more often reserved for those who have been married a few years. In these instances, a cheating husband might discuss a desire to visit France, for example. This naturally leads to French lessons, which his wife mistakes as being an indication of a planned trip to another country. She never sees the affair his 'language' lessons are hiding. While new languages are great, be careful your husband isn't more than just new words in his mouth.

My husband had an ex 8 months ago but the girl still sends him messages and calls him. So is there a possibility that they still meet and are dating?? There are several factors at play here that can affect this answer. For one thing, he might still have feelings for her, such as feeling sorry for her but not acting on them.

The second possibility is that they do meet, but it is not because he has romantic intentions towards her. The fourth possibility is that they are seeing each other but he does not have the heart to tell you. Yes No I need help As honesty is the best policy in a love relationship your best approach here is to just simply ask him if he is committed to a future with you and if so, will she be part of it? If you are suspicious now, it is the time to draw boundaries and state clearly what it is about his ex contacting him that bothers you.

If he does not want to allay your fears or refuses to have the conversation or accuses you of not trusting him then it might be time to leave the relationship. On the other hand, if he tells you it is nothing you might prefer to take him at his word rather than create an atmosphere of mistrust.

Yes No I need help See more questions like this: My sister's husband was working abroad and now a women wrote her that he had an affair with her and he denied? He goes to work when is raining, leaves early and comes home late, goes in the garage and tells me I was being a jerk when in fact I wasn't.

Doesn't take me places anymore. He has at the very least treated you disrespectfully. Maybe he just needs his own space right now but I would start to pay attention to what he was doing more such as if he is working late bring him dinner.

Yes No I need help Not sure if he's cheating at present though he claims not? I have found 2 substances and 2 condoms in his bag last year. He stayed out at his office for Christmas party till 2 or so PM. Wonder if you have any input? Please help if you can. Maybe those condoms are from a long time ago and he never got rid of them, however, there should be no reason for him to have condoms unless they were with you.

Why would a married man text his single secretary from work at night time if he isn't having an affair. Especially if she is his right-hand person at work like many secretaries are. He may be texting her about something she needs to do first thing in the morning or asking if something has been completed that he requested. Yes No I need help Should I divorce him? Should I trust him again if we stay married? My husband and I have been married for 20 years.

Last year I found out about his 8 years affair with a woman who is 17 younger than him. I also got hold of his cellphone records. During the 8 years, he sent texts and called her every day. Last Valentines Day I asked him to make up to me by buying me a card. He ignored me almost completely. Again on our wedding anniversary, I asked him to do something special for us, but again he just kind of not interested in my request.

This got me very upset and we ended fighting on our anniversary. I suggested we go to see a marriage counselor but he refused to say that we just move forward. He said he admitted his past wrongdoing. He never apologizes or begs for my forgiveness. I think it was caused by: I think maybe I trusted him too much from the day that we married.

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Yes No I need help He is not moving forward although he has stated that you move forward. It may be time to end the relationship because it sounds like he already left it emotionally and is not even asking for forgiveness when he had an 8-year affair. Yes No I need help My man works with his baby's x and I want to know how to tell if they are hooking up still for sure since she seems to come first always because of their daughter?

I feel like she probably did everything better than I do or she still is and there is no way of really knowing for sure do to their kid and them working together. Involve yourself in their situation more. They may just be working and parenting together but you need to make sure that is the only thing going on and the best way is to make your presence more known around them when they are together. Yes No I need help Why he asks me to love him? Why he always think I have another man?

Why he always notices my dress to wear? My husband and I have fought 4 days ago, he did not come home and he text us how are we with my kid, then I ask him to come home. He always answers he will not come home unless I love him? He is a jealous husband as years fly by, he always thinks I have another man. He is dirty-minded, sometimes I am so angry that he would think of me that way. He uses drugs and I consulted a doctor, he has bipolar disorder. Yes No I need help He has a bipolar disorder that is causing issues in your relationship.

It does not help the situation that he is treating his disorder with illicit drugs. Suggest marriage counseling as well as ask him to go into the treatment program for his addiction and mental illness. Until he gets the help you will be able to do nothing to change his mind about you. Yes No I need help Turtle Saudi bank statement with a hotel and it was my husband going there every month?

He runs hotels but doesn't stay on his own, he started going to a different one something tells me in my gut that something wasn't right, so I checked the bank statement and there it was every month he would go, definitely he denied it. I know it's true, we don't talk or communicate and I can't trust him Was this helpful?

Yes No I need help He is getting a hotel room in a separate place from the ones he manages so there is something definitely going on. Instead of giving you a reason he has flat out denied the charges to the hotel. Your best option would be to look for a pattern of dates that he stayed at these hotels and try contacting him there to see if it falls within his other patterns of stay.

Yes No I need help My husband is out on a vacation with my daughter for six weeks. Should I trust him?

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Should I trust my husband. He is on vacation to see his family he hasn't seen in 9 years. He has a lot of friends and always going out. I don't know what he is doing there. Should I stop thinking negative?. Nothing but nag him. To be honest and faithful to me. But instead, he gets angry and tells me there is no trust in our marriage Was this helpful? Yes No I need help If he is going to see his family, especially after such a long absence of not seeing them, you should trust that he will remain faithful.

He is bringing your daughter with him so there is even less of a chance that he would do something that could get back to you. If you are so suspicious maybe you should surprise him while he is there or arrange a week or two to visit also with him. Yes No I need help He has told you that there is no trust in the marriage.

If you can't seem to try to trust him then this marriage is doomed to fail. Give him some space while he is on this trip and do not interrogate him over the phone. Yes No I need help My fiance and I have changed our numbers 4 times in the last 6 months and different women keep calling my phone?

When other women call my phone, causing me to ask him how did they get my phone number after changing it 4 times? Calling the phone company, changing numbers. Not sure Was this helpful? Yes No I need help Do they ask for your boyfriend directly? Otherwise, it is because you keep getting recycled phone numbers and women are calling someone else and getting you instead. Have you considered that it may be telemarketers or bill collectors? I highly doubt your boyfriend would be passing out your phone number after you have changed your number so many times.

Yes No I need help Hubby doesn't call me while being at his job or check on me. He is always playing a Facebook online games and not enough time with me? What should I do? I do have the gut feeling that he has already cheated on me or getting ready to cheat. Nothing because he is always on the defensive side. He can't talk to me like adults should.

I guess not enough attention Was this helpful? Yes No I need help Just because you feel that you are not getting enough attention from him does not mean that he is cheating. It sounds more like he is busy and possibly stressed at work and home and his Facebook games are his escape from reality. Yes No I need help If you feel that you are not getting enough attention from him, ask him what has happened to the guy you fell in love with and married. He may just be in a rut and too comfortable to try to appease you anymore.

He also could be completely oblivious to the fact that you require more attention. Yes No I need help Schedule some date nights for the next few months and see if he shows an interest in at least spending some time with you. Let him know that these evenings out will help you feel more appreciated by him. This does not mean that you have to spend money.

Even a date night walking around the neighborhood or watching the sunset while sitting in the car listening to music can be a good way to get more connection in a relationship. So, for example, ask what he wants for breakfast, or what he has planned for the day…or anything else that he can respond to easily. Then just observe his general behavior. You can expect him to be defensive. He may become evasive and reply with something like, "What makes you think that? Or, he may get indignant and say "Why on earth would you say such a thing? Often, innocent people will respond directly by saying, "Yes" or "No".

They are more likely to respond to your inquiry directly, kindly and patiently. They are more likely to show that they are willing to discuss your concerns and to address those things that caused you to doubt in the first place. Cheaters are generally very uncomfortable about addressing the issue and may "explode" and become very defensive and angry.

When confronting a cheating husband, it may help to inquire about specific occasions when you know for certain what the truth is, so you can see if he is lying. This is where a private investigators documentation and report can come in handy because they can provide undeniable truth that can reveal his lies and deceits. Do not resort to violence. I cannot stress this enough. Criminal charges and possible jail time will cause you to suffer and will keep you from making sure the cheater gets what they deserve.

If your spouse or partner is cheating on you, it forces you into making some very important decisions. The decisions are not only about your own future, but also about your children's future as well. We make our best decisions when we know the truth and understand the reality of things. So, the first step is always to determine the unbiased, objective truth. To make sure that you know the truth, consider retaining the services of a professional investigator. They have the experience to deal with these matters objectively and clear-headedly.

They also have the equipment necessary to obtain the proof you'll need in case you go to court. And if you have an attorney, your investigator should work with them to make sure that their combined efforts focus on making sure you reap the maximum benefit. He is a licensed private investigator with over 15 years of experience. Contact him at or email him at: Here are some more articles that you may help you understand a cheating husband and help you overcome the devastation of an affair:.

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