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Fake it 'til you make it. The great thing about confidence is that you can fake it and trick your brain into actually believing that you're confident. Start small--wear those heels you love, but think you look silly in, or that bright red lipstick--and work your way up to bigger acts of confidence--asking a guy for his number, buying a guy a drink, etc. Don't compare yourself to other people, especially other women. Someone is always going to be better-looking, more successful, with better relationships. You need to focus on the good things about yourself, rather than how you compare to others.

Dating can be a bit like marketing, or like looking for a job. You have to learn how to present yourself in a way that draws guys in. This doesn't mean that you give up who you are, it simply means that you know how to get across the best, and simplest, sides of who you are. If you're having difficulties and a lot of people with self-esteem issues do have a trusted friend help you out there. They have to be positive qualities! Pick three of the things that you put on your list and create an image based on these. If you're going in for a job interview you're not going to be super slovenly.

You don't want to dress yourself super uncomfortably and you want to make sure you're dressing for the occasion dressing to the nines to go to the gym is probably not the best idea. It's really important that you don't limit your options for dating by focusing exclusively on "dating" places like the bar, parties, etc. People meet their significant others in all kinds of places, and you'll need to be open to that possibility.

If you're really bold, strike up conversation. This is also why it's so important to get out there and do things. You could very well meet that special someone at the park, at the library, on a plane to somewhere far away, at your local charity benefit. Weed out the bad ones. If you're putting yourself out there, marketing yourself effectively, then you're going to start garnering interest. Now's the time to start weeding out the ones that aren't going to cut it: Don't be so picky. While you are trying to get rid of the ones who won't work, you should also consider giving a chance to guys that you might not normally go for.

This doesn't mean that creepy guy you met at the bar, but it does mean maybe trying out someone who doesn't have rock hard abs, or who dresses in a manner you aren't sure you like. You never know what might come out of that sort of relationship. Some things to look out for in a potential mate: Remember, there is no guarantee that you're going to find a husband.

Even if you do, he's probably not going to look like a movie star, treat you like a queen, and devote his every second to your needs. That doesn't mean you won't find someone whom you love and are passionate with. Part 1 Quiz The most important reason to get out of your comfort zone when looking for a mate is that: You will better understand your best traits. You will be more interesting. You will show your family you're serious. You will be inspired to dress up more often. You will learn what to avoid. When you've met someone that you think you might like, show them that. While this doesn't mean getting super clingy and pouring your emotions all over them, it does mean that you give off signs of interest, like flirting.

You can use this without any of the other accoutrement that articles on flirting always recommend. When you're talking with the guy, dancing with him, or giving him looks across the dance floor, maintain constant eye contact. In the beginning it might be a little uncomfortable, but it goes from uncomfortable to soul-piercing pretty quickly and builds a connection between the two of you.

This will soften the intensity of your gaze, and it will also show that you are interested. Never try to fake a smile, because fake smiles never reach your eyes.

Ask him questions about himself. People love to talk about themselves, so it will make him more likely to open up and to realize that you're interested in him. Don't immediately jump in after he talks with an anecdote of your own. Instead ask follow up questions on whatever he just said. Maintain your own life. You need to make sure that you have your own life outside of him. Have nights out with just your friends. Go and do fun things by yourself. Not only will you show that you aren't clingy, but the two of you will have more stuff to talk about when you meet up.

Don't drop everything to meet up with him every time he asks. You don't want to blow him off, or say no so many times he doesn't think you're interested. However, you do want to make it clear that you have things going on in your life other than him and while you enjoy being with him, he isn't the only thing you have going on.

Maybe we could meet up next weekend? Laughter is a great way to pique someone's interest. You don't have to turn into a stand-up comedian to do this, fortunately. It's also important to remember that each person has a unique sense of humor. You'll need to gauge the types of things he thinks are funny before you launch into your witty repartee. One type of humor that tends to work well on most people is telling a funny story, something that actually happened.

Don't belittle yourself, however. Don't call yourself stupid or dumb or whatever pejorative you come up with. This will feed into your insecurities rather than boosting your confidence. You can poke a little gentle fun at yourself without calling yourself names. Be nice to his friends.

Just as with women, the opinion of a guy's friends is going to be very important to whether he keeps seeing you and whether he gets serious about your relationship. You will want to make sure that they like you. This doesn't mean that you have to be a pushover and bend over backwards to accommodate his friends. Likewise, if they say rude or disparaging things that you don't agree with, you have every right to call them out.

In fact, you should probably reconsider the relationship with your guy. When you're hanging out with your guy and his friends, ask them questions about themselves what do they do as a job? Again, people love talking about themselves and if his friends think you really care about the answers, they're going to be a lot more interested in keeping you around. Part 2 Quiz What type of humor should you always avoid?

If Adam was allowed to find, what could he come out with as a helper, a partner, a companion? An ape, a monkey, a gorilla, a cow, a goat; straight an animal. When you go out to search for a helper, a companion, a partner, husband or wife, without allowing God to create one for you, you come out with an animal.

Many people even Christians have disobeyed God reason marriages are not marriages because we have gone out to search, came out with an animal and married an animal. You just have to sleep and your Godly Heavenly created perfect husband or wife will be brought to you at the right time and place. Go on with your life as though there is nothing you need, like you do not feel the need. People who have stuck with God and obeyed Him, they have found their God created partners. The answer is Yes! Therefore fellow Christians and every person who will come across this teaching, learn to obey God.

Sleep and wait for God to create and bring your perfect partner at the right time and place. He will definitely do it at the right time. Going out to search or find a husband or wife is going against God plan of creation; creating you. For those who went out as the world teaches, searched and married see when you marry the wrong person.

Wednesday, August 8, Worldly way of finding a husband or wife Because every person needs a partner at some point in life, the world has provided its ways of finding a husband or wife. Should a Christian Search for a Husband or Wife To answer this question correctly, lets us go back to creation for answers. God created first Adam and He put him in the Garden of Eden.

Therefore, God saw that it was not good for Adam to be alone. He gave Adam a task to perform. God created all animals and brought them to Adam to see what he would call them. It is God who brings the perfect match He has created to you. Wait for God, you can wait! For those who went out as the world teaches, searched and married see when you marry the wrong person Jesus is Coming Repent Repent Repent Repent for the kingdom of heaven is at hand. Thanks for sharing that there are guys out there who see the worth of reaching for the apples at the top of the tree. I met a rich guy a week ago , he is really handsome and all.

He started talking dirty with me on our chats and i played along. He then suggested that we meet in his office and have some fun , i told him that i really like him but i am not that kinda gal. He started telling me about how he has taste , class in women and has dated a lot of celebs and travelled the world. I felt so bad. He even said that difficult women turn him off.

Now i am in a dilemma. I really like this guy but i dont want to compromise my values for that. What should i do …. What you should really do is tell him to back off, show no weakness. I never dated a rich guy but I dated a guy who came from a former rich family, meaning he was raised in a rich environment. That is SO laughable, he got two cars, paid college tuition, several loans and his mother and sister are always there to aid him in food and clothes, a free roof over his head into his mid twenties.

How insightful but I have a question, FS. I believe wealthy people tend to be savers that live ridiculoulsy below their means. I do free clubs and activities, which just reflect a cross-section of society. So… where are they really? Sounds like they are, like me, at the office working late on their own. Thank you for the article. Apart from providing the very obvious tips it also gave a huge insight to the life of the wealthy — how they think and what they value. And how to think like the wealthy. Made the rich more human. That it offers choices and experiences and satisfaction from life. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and I hope you find someone you love, if not already.

You can indeed judge a book by its cover.

Once I had a short relationship with a Rich boy who was 4. Then I dumped him because I got to know he is a flirty. But we are still good friends and he still appreaciate me. At that time what I understood is for a Richman what is more important is if you will accept him even without his money. This boy I met was the only son of a rich dad.

So he mostly attract women for his money. But if you can appreaciate him for himself , he will fall for you more than anyone else. And of course Richmen like independant women. If you can show him you do not want his money, but only him that will be a big plus. Hi, got to this post because I am finding myself in a similar situation.

I met him at a conference and I was my friendly self. He had the sincerest smile and I found him interesting. I was surprised that he invited me for dinner afterwards. By the way, he is 22 years older than me. When we met, he automatically concluded that I was older because of my position in the industry. He would text me each morning when he wakes and at night before he sleeps…and would call me at least once a day.

It feels wonderful but I am scared. Of what, I am not sure He is usually formal when we meet.

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But can get free with his emotions in texts. He has invited me for an overnight stay in one of his beach houses as his guest but I have not yet obliged him. I feel it is too soon. For someone who is secured in herself, I suddenly feel nervous around him. I am even tempted to end whatever this is that is starting. Some of you are sounding like a bunch of gold digging bitches, if I was a rich man I would run for the hills. Remember they will have the upper hand. How about findinging someone you respect and if they happen to be rich great.

How about getting your SHIT, nothing is sexier than a woman who has her own and holds her own. Most rich men are fairly loyal family men. They are the breadwinners at the later part of life, but they often meet their significant other before they are wealthy, and sometimes the wife needs to support them in the beginning. I have never noticed that wealthier men are likely to be scoundrels.

And many of the wealthier men I know, hang around with poorer friends they have known all their life. But then, if you love someone, you protect them, thats how all men are. I think if you asked a wealthy man if they wanted a wife that was independently wealthy, they would say; yes, but I also think they would be lying. They like the control being the one with the money gives them, even if that control is largely imaginary.

I am married to a rich man… He is always busy and spends no time for me… always tired, even in bed. Hello, are there any nice. If there is anyone that wants to chat. Can you handle lying all the time? Are you a good actor? You better take a drama class in college before you try this shit…ya damn hoe.

This topic had to be written by a real Stupid woman, and first of all there just so many very high maintenance women out there today looking for a rich man. Having money and a career means that you have your shit together. In fact my guy friend said that I am one of the few women he knows that has their shit together that is available.

He told me that the people he worked for were rich! I was so confused as he has no idea what really is rich. I like the honesty, but the perception of the world at his age is skewed. God forbid if many of you women had to work as hard as the women back in the old days, and both men and women back then had to struggle to make ends meat.

My life has recently changed drastically as my wife of 17 years passed away in October after battling breast cancer for 5 years. I never pictured myself dating in my 40s I was 43, now 44 as I was happily married. However, you must go with the cards life deals you. I did need help as I have 3 younger kids. One woman who was a friend of my wife and is very attractive was over all the time.

Well, we did end up dating. It ended after a few months. She was 49, very attractive, twice divorced, and broke. She began borrowing money from me. Larger and larger amounts. She talked marriage say what? She wanted to buy a very large, expensive house together. She liked borrowing my Audi. I was in a grief fog so I was pretty blind to all this at the time. I look back now and realize, wow, what was I thinking. I got out before major damage. I later found out the trail of financial destruction she had bestowed upon another man a few years prior.

She still owes me a lot of money. However, if need be, my attorney says I have an airtight case to sue her for the money. I can relate to this article. I am very sorry for your loss. I am sure your children are devastated as well. So sad that a your wife and mother was separated from her family in this way. I just want to say that you are a very fortunate man to have had such a loving wife and children. It is obvious that she did provide you and your kids with a certain amount of emotional support.

Then she was very aggressive about economic security for herself. While I certainly understand why you would push her away at this point, bear in mind that she did provide comfort, despite her ulterior motives. If you feel the economic price you paid is too high, I would definitely get a lawyer involved. If it is an emotional price, I would recommend you walk away having been the wiser. Unfortunately many people are taken advantage of by opportunistic people who leave psychological and emotion ruin in their wake. Ask yourself what the reason for pursuing a lawsuit might be.

I would think, from the sound of your comment, that the main reason you would take legal action would be to help prevent someone else from falling prey to this woman and to shine a light on her ulterior motives. If not too much money is at stake, I would not push for the money as she did help you with your children in your time of need. Obviously she is a very needy woman. Perhaps the only reason to make a case of it is to warn another widower in advance. How much would you be willing to pay an attorney? An expensive personal vendetta on top of losing your wife might not be worth it.

Perhaps the emotional toll her actions have taken on your family is so heavy that a legal case may be therapeutic for you. You sound like a sober minded individual. Proceed cautiously and you will make the best decision for your own peace of mind. I hate sound repetitive, but loads of single people who are never married with no kids get mislead by a romantic partner every day of the week.

Only you can determine if it is worth going to a court of law. That said, I would not condone any person trying to manipulate another in their time of grief. It is morally wrong. I can tell you the conduct I have seen first hand upon the death of a loved one can be atrocious. Perhaps this woman needs a wake up call.

It is nice to be kind. You got out of it soon enough. I hope the economic loss was not too great. I have never date a rich man in my whole life. I would like to meet one very rich man that can take me from this life of misery. It sounds as though English is your second language, due to the ungrammatical sentence you posted. You need to improve yourself. A wealthy man is not going to marry someone from a third world unless that person is also successful, i.

You have to rescue yourself. Did you know interracial marriages are surprise for you more successful?! People like you living in their own bubble get on my nerves. I think this article is very interesting. But I do disagree with many of these points. In that I feel like the expectations that money can attract quality women is off. I think money, like any other advantage in life eg. Most people end up marrying those that they like and are just around. People who are of equal social status tend to marry one another. I think sensible rich men would try to marry rich women and so on so forth.

Because it is just easier that way. Take for example the following pairs: All of these people are about equal attractiveness, education background, upbringing, career field, and equal accomplishments. Unequal pairings tend not to last. If you want a rich spouse, then you need to become rich too. What do they all have in common?

They are about equal. These women married up and knew what they were doing. You kind of dissproved your point.

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He said a long time ago a girl would have to be very understanding to be with him. I learn a lot from him about running a business, wealth, etc. There is truly no one in this world like him and I really enjoy his company! Plus, some of the nice things he has are just fun sometimes!

Glad you are happy! What culture are you from? How does this work? Natalia This is the story of my life that i am still pondering upon even as i write this article. I maybe judged and i may not be but even if i am judged, no one can ever know my real personality or family. I have been asking myself if i should let the world know about this or maybe i should just keep it to myself cos most people might think am crazy. All the same am telling my story. Before my husband, i have been married to five different men. Yeah five, all five marriages failed after six months not cos we had problems or the relationships was on the rock they just come and go without good reason.

It was easy to say i was cured by someone or something. The entire puzzle of my life just seem to fall into place when i met my present husband i fall hardly in love with him like he also did. Yeah we got married but just after the first six months as always he just wanted out as every other man that i was married to. But this, i just got tired of same old same old thing just wanted a steady marriage with the love of my life.

I tried marriage counseling with him which is suppose to me the best way to resolving marital problem but he was like its been tattooed in his mind that he wanted out of our marriage. His name IS Dr okpapiami i think he was of great help cos i honest remember that he helped me save my marriage and made me helped myself to feel loved again.

Its being one year and six months exactly since he cast a spell to make my husband stay till dead do us part and my husband is still with me now and we are happy and in love just like how we were for the first six months. I will be fully convinced if we get to celebrity our 50th year anniversary.

I am just sharing my experience on how Mutton helped me restore my marriage with spell casting and i should tell you he does not charge for his services all you are to do is to provide materials he will be needing for the spell casting. May be someone out there knows what i am talking about and know how its like to be invisible mostly by the one person you are in love with. I was in love an unhappy married man. His marriage was going to limbo and i was the only one there for him.

He only saw me as a friend but he was more than that to me. I wish i had the heart to tell him before the went ahead and got married then, may be he would never had be unhappy and may be we both would have been together. Yeah it turned out i was too much or a chicken. Though we are together now literally because of the spell Metodo Acamu a very powerful spell caster i must say helped me cast to make him love me just as i loved him. A lot of people may have different opinion as to if what is did is wrong or right but really, it do not matter because he was in pain and his life was falling to pieces and i was his friend who was in love with him.

I knew he was going to be happy with me and he is now. For the first time in three years i have he really happy i mean he tells me every time how free he feels. We are perfect together and i know we are always going to be like this. This would not be the case if not for the spell Metodo Acamu helped me cast. All that was required of me were just the materials that was going to be used to prepare the spell and note Metodo Acamu does not do spells for money i wish i knew why but i do not.

I am only writing this short article for those out there with problems similar to the one i had. If you want to contact him use this email its what i used metodoacamufortressx yahoo. Time to ask dad for some money, kick back, and enjoy life! Would love to be connected to a rich guy. Not to date per say but to get involved in the kind of business he does. We can pick it up from there. Am really desperate to be rich. As a moderately successful man that has now fallen on leaner but not necessarily hard times I came to this page to read about how ladies think.

For some time I have suspected the only reason why my partner is with me is because of the lifestyle she can enjoy from the money I earn. By no exaggeration, every cent I earn goes on trying in vain to keep her happy so that we are happy. I fell so deeply in love with my partner but now I have no choice but to ask for our monthly spending to drop she has become viciously hostile, mentally and at times physically abusive to me. All I want in my life is to feel the closeness in spirit to someone who will stay together with me until the end.

My trust in how women are, how they think and what they want is all but completely broken. Been there, done that. I clicked on this article for the same reason you did. Gold digging woman are disgusting trash. Like pulling up to a coffee stand in an old beat up car and asking a woman on a date. It is amazing the difference in treatment you get when you pull up in an expensive sports car. Yes almost all of them are gold diggers. I had a poor girlfriend who I helped tremendously. Paid her medical bills, took care of her vehicle needs, nice vacations.

Then you have to get a prenup and everything else. That is the kind of woman that I had, and I was much happier when I sent her down the road. I know the kind of closeness and love you are talking about wanting from a woman, but this one, unless she has an epiphany, will never give it to you.

I have friends with old fashioned foreign wives that love them through thick and thin, truly for better or worse, for richer or poorer I have seen it with my own eyes, it does exist. You may have to start over.

Good luck and God bless. As for me, time to hide the wealth again and find a down to earth farm girl. Gold digging women are disgusting trash?? What about men who fuck and objectify women with no intentions of caring for her? Women who want financial security vs men who just want a good looking person to bang…. What sounds more unreasonable and shallow? Yeah…it goes both ways dude. I am a woman, and I come from a well off family. I have always worked hard and dated men not based on income or looks but what I thought was love.

My first relationship was fully abusive he beat me because he wanted to control me and could not handle any men looking at me I left, of course. I have low self esteem when it comes to my personal life, but high when it comes to my work. I am good at what I do. I keep hoping that I will find love and be able to have children, but I think my time for that is getting tight… So it goes both ways I guess.

There are male gold diggers out there. And men need to stop leading us on if they have no thoughts of marriage. Its not fair to women. Most of us want kids and marriage and love.

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Friendships are hard to maintain, everyone I know works hard and long hours, as do I. At least for me. I know some people are really happy without. Most country girls are down to earth would choose a day out horse back riding over a vacation.. I feel bad for u… I feel bad she was an alcoholic.. Sometimes the good girls are disguised.. They work in retail.. Or ur local shops.. Take time to talk to one see i work in a pretty wealthy town..

Lol in fact if I guy ever rolled up next to me in a nice car or a beater.. And then me being a careful loyal girl.. I believe to hide nothing.. Always tell the truth.. That, and I insist on paying my own way. If you were so great, you would have no problem meeting and keeping a great girl. My ex bought me a brand new mkz for my birthday in our 6 year together… Then lost absolutely everything.

I stayed as I loved him deeply, and got a job, then 2 jobs. My ex was abusive. Does that mean all men are? Of course not, what flawed logic. I am perfectly happy and content just by loving God and live according to His will. I mean the work field. I want men to act normal towards me. God, all I ask for is normal treatment. I then met my second husband after a year of courting, he asked me to marry him and allow him to take care of me and my children.

We married and even though I knew that I did not have to continue working, to maintain my lifestyle, I kept working and running my business. He begged me to at least let go of two jobs, telling me that I worked too much and I should hire a housekeeper because he was tired of watching me take care of everyone and not have adequate time for myself. He told me that I was the first woman that loved him for him. He passed away in He was a fabulous man, so classy, smart, strong, honest, loving, fun, etc. I should have cloned him lol. My good friend told me that I was in trouble if something were to happen to him, she was right…No one has compared to him since.

It is not just about money either. To all those rich men out there… Just so you know… The next time u go to your local grocery store, cvs, bank any of those there are girls like me who would love a simple hello and thank you.. I live pay check to pay check.. No successful relationships and two beautiful little boys. Im ambitious I wish I can go to school everyday.. Constantly messing with my image.. I hear stories of women who treat men who try to do everything for them all the time of the women being horrid and horrible..

My main goal in life is to become a pediatric rn, I want to work with children or the mentally ill.. I want to help people.. I would love to be able to walk out of my house knowing the guy in with can handle the house hold.. Cook mabye clean even.. All that is just extra.. I would still want to go to work.. Or go to school get degrees for what I love to do.. All I have is one day…. So the next time u see someone working at ur local stores send a good vibe for me… Do a good deed.. Never judge a book by the cover!

Then why are you with someone who constantly insults you?! Grow up and learn to stand on your own two feet. You dated the wrong girl. For his bday I bought him football tickets for him and his dad. My BF makes more then enough to support both but I hate where he works, I want him to pursue his dream job even if it means we are poorer. Netflix and chill is still a good date lol.

It sounds like you may have selected the wrong partner. Was she with you before you had money? Has she ever had to earn money on her own? If not it maybe very hard for her to adjust her lifestyle. She may just try to find another man to meet your spending requirements. I want say something for those who say about us ladies wanting rich guy so many bad things…. Why I want rich guy? Wealth is great, but dignity perseverance and hardwork is more satisfying than searching for a rich man. Il rather marry a working class average man now, and get all the love and attention when I get back home to him.

Then work together on him becoming a billionaire. How did you manage to build a relationship with them? Were you not able to marry them? Is good to be someone rich he ll take good of you but be careful friends we all need money is a good thing of life ,,,,,,but is u are a good guy n also rich u can call me let b friends Interesting article and the comments on this one are definitely just as interesting! A real eye opener for me. Doctors and lawyers often marry their classmates I know, I met my spouse in medical school.

You do know that many American women are high earners? Whatever gender you are, invest in yourself and you will attract a partner who compliments your skills. My mother has been a nurse all her life and never was she ever a prostitute for the doctors! She believes in her cause to care for the sick and ailing. Additionally, not all nurse are women! Now, my construction husband believes — since I. So are all construction guys douche bags?

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Its not the end of the world. Ive seen amazing reconstruction surgeries that are beautiful-working from nothing, and turning out to look better than most womens natural breasts. My advice to you is to remember that your a survivor! And that life goes on. You can and will, do and be, complete and better…im not just saying that. Its a reality if u want it. HI Isabel best way to mend a broken heart is do a circular dating date and date — go on tinder and speed dating and please no more construction guys try a desk job of guy for a change.

Wow as a nurse they later became a lawyer I find that the most insulting thing I have ever heard. I became a nurse never once thinking to catch a doctor and very few nurses I know ever married or dated any. I love your answer JustMe. I am a female and went on from being a nurse to getting my doctorate in nursing- DNP. Being any type of nurse certainly does not constitute being affiliated with being a hooker. It sounds like the original female surgeon poster is lonely and in pain from being hurt in her own relationships. She is clearly lashing out in a demeaning manner.

He was the biggest A hole I have ever dated. Not one time did I sleep with a doctor. I happen to think most doctors are full of themselves! Actually, nurses have less debt and earn higher than average for a year degree. Most doctors years old still pay off their loans. They do not even have the money to buy high class cars. Nurses are professionals dedicated to serve patients. They usually give more support than busy and arrogant doctors. Nurses deserve respect and not judgement. I completely understand due to the fact I experienced it personally.

I took care of two guys in my life who used me and left me broke, homeless, and with a background to boot. I know for a fact that everything he is and does with every fiber of his being is to pave a way for me. His military prowess, and power makes me week in the knees from masculinity. When my future husband is around everyone will feel like they are in the presence of Royalty because is my King my life.

My Love will be my strength, durability, and my backbone and I his ptsd medicine. What it takes is loyalty, honesty, trust, most of all communication and the willingness to compromise. Somebody to share the struggle , the good, the bad, the best, and worst times without breaking bad. You do get one part right: Did you want me to indulge in your negativity.

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