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You can get help from inanimate objects——they never speak!
For instance, there are hidden cameras available in shapes unimaginable! They are so discreet that even you will not be able to make out that a state-of-the-art camera lies within. Hidden spy cameras range from wall clocks to houseplants to table lamps. Install a GPS device. Track where your wayward wife has been lately by using a GPS device.
It will show you where she's taken the car, and for how long she stays. Next time she says "I'm working late, honey," you can say "Wow, Motel 9 must love you! A cheap free alternative to GPS tracking is to simply record mileage before and after work. Does this square with the distance your spouse is traveling between work and home? Differences on the odometer can lead to targeted questions which can help you find out what is or is not happening.
Pay particular attention to your spouse's friends. Who is being seen the most? Who is contacted the most? Are they your friends as well? When you meet them, keep a real alert on for bad feelings when talking to them. Don't ask direct questions of them. You don't want to ask them to choose who to support.
What people don't say is at least as useful as what people do say. If the call history is blocked, then access the details online via telephone accounts. You will need to use a password to access this. However the chances are the password being used was set up long before the affair started so you probably know it or can second guess it. Look for frequency of use and call time. Are both of these factors increasing, steady or increasing? Knowing this will give you insight on how things are progressing. Watch for changes in behavior. Changes in interests in clothes, appearance, weight loss or gain, coldness, distancing, hostility; refusal to talk about future projects, disengagement from you, disinterest in sex and more noticeably simply everyday affections.
Monitor those changes are they increasing or decreasing? It's the changes that give away clues. Keep an eye out for a hidden phone your spouse may use to avoid detection.
Also, check the trash on his or her computer——often people throw things in the trash, and then don't empty it. Catch him in the act! If you really believe your spouse is cheating on you, yet after monitoring phone calls, emails, and travel details, all you have is a gut feeling, than you need to make an essential decision about how far you are willing to go in pursuit of knowing if your spouse is faithful. Honestly ask yourself why you don't trust your spouse. Do you have any reason, real or imagined, to believe your spouse is, or has been, unfaithful?
It doesn't have to stand up to legal standards of proof, but do you have anything to go on beyond your feeling or hunch? It is not uncommon for a partner to self-convince that there is a case of spousal infidelity based merely on circumstances that have been molded into the evidence needed to justify one's own feelings, beliefs, and insecurities. Just because he seems less interested in you doesn't mean he's cheating. Working late or going out with friends might mean only that.
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It's also not uncommon for couples who have been together for a while to forget why they fell in love because everyday life is a grind and people get comfortable with time, taking one another for granted. Moreover, sometimes work addiction takes over, and your spouse really has become "wed to the job or start-up" and rarely thinks of spending time with you. If you think you have real cause to suspect your spouse, then start with the assumption that she is going to take some kind of precautions to remain undiscovered when cheating.
She's not going to send emails from the home computer, or call from the home phone. She's not going to claim to be working late and leave for a hotel rendezvous risking your calls going unanswered or being seen leaving work too early She will use normal routines and patterns that you are well used to and simply use that time to have the affair. A sexual affair doesn't require much time or commitment. The two of them meet in the parking lot, hop into one car, head for "their room" at the Motel 9 for a half hour, and are back in time for shopping.
She even comes home with purchases consistent with where they were supposed to be. So if you're truly committed to finding the truth, do this: Set things up for the set-up. Hide a voice activated recorder behind your bed. Then, plan a trip out of town for two to four days, and share that information with your spouse. Do your homework and make it look like you're leaving town by sharing details of your trip, while you secretly plan a stay at a hotel just out of town. If your spouse expects details of your trip, book them, get confirmations to share with your spouse, but cancel at the last hour and stay close to home.
Make an effort to call your spouse from the airport and when you arrive at your destination. Do this from your cell phone and you can claim to be anywhere.
Apologize that you will be working late and might not be able to call that night. Monitor your spouse's GPS activity. If your spouse leaves home for an extended time, go to that location and watch from afar. Follow your spouse a rental is a good idea , but if you are prone to road rage or other rash acts, think twice about this one. If your spouse simply goes home, park down the street and watch.
Use the camera if appropriate. Check the recorders just in case you missed something. If you need more time, call the morning you were scheduled to be home and apologize that you have to stay one more night. Cope with a discovery. If you discover something, you can return with the evidence. If not, don't overdo the stay away. Either way, don't let this charade drag on——you'll need to confront your spouse with your evidence or own up to your suspicions in order for the relationship to change, mend or dissolve as needs be.
Deal with the aftermath of finding out either way. It isn't pleasant to discover that a spouse has been cheating on you. In fact, it's likely to be devastating as the foundation on which you've based your personal life is totally rocked. Moreover, you may carry feelings of self-loathing for the manner in which you had to sneak about to find out the truth.
All in all, the discovery process is harrowing and can leave you feeling raw. Cope with your feelings.
If you do get positive, concrete proof that your spouse is cheating, you now have cause to be miserable and unhappy. The fact is that it is better known than not. In time, you'll learn that while this is a traumatic experience, there is a person who deserves you and that it's most definitely not this person. Seek the support of friends, family and perhaps your doctor or a counselor to help you work through what is now a difficult period.
Deciding whether or not to leave your spouse is a minefield that only you can decide to navigate, with good support networks to keep you strong. You might find it helpful to start by reading How to mend a marriage after an affair. Realize you may be completely wrong. If you don't find proof of your spouse's infidelity, you now have little reason to believe your spouse is cheating. If you still think your spouse is super careful and sneaky, you have at least discovered how easy it is to set up the conditions to catch your cheating spouse in the not too distant future.
However, be absolutely sure that your continuing suspicions are valid; by this stage, you're likely to be ripping apart any trust that once existed in the relationship. Not Helpful 14 Helpful This does not always indicate cheating, as many people put their phone off for work, church, etc. Typically, you want to look for the change in behaviour. So if the phone is suddenly always on silent, that is something to look at more closely. Look for telltale signs such as placing the phone face down when not in use, or taking it with them when they leave a common area rather than leaving it out.
Overall, look for changes in phone behaviour and increased vigilance in securing their phone.
Not Helpful 5 Helpful What should I do if my spouse keeps defending himself, even when I ask questions? Defensive answers are exactly what they sound like. People tend to use these when they don't want to admit something. Another thing he might say is "Why would you think I would do that? What you should do is to take notice of the continued defense and treat it as a very big indicator in your basket of indicators that he is up to something he doesn't want to tell you about.
Not Helpful 18 Helpful What should I do if my partner of six years keeps cheating on me and has only admitted to a few times?
Not Helpful 6 Helpful I suspect my husband has been cheating for a while but I don't know what to do because I still love him. You may not want to know what to do because you'd rather things stayed the same but that just gives him the space to keep on doing the wrong thing if he is cheating. Be guided by your discomfort and your worry that the love isn't as bonding as it should be; if you focus on the quality of the love your husband is showing back to you, you'll know what to do.
Not Helpful 21 Helpful Is it common for men to suddenly have an increased sexual desire for their wives after starting an affair? At first, my husband's infidelity excited him. We had sex more often. As his affair went from weeks to months, however, his desire for me became practically nonexistent. Not Helpful 4 Helpful Could my spouse be cheating if he sneaks around with his phone a lot?
It's possible, but there are many other reasons for this behavior besides cheating. Instead of jumping to conclusions, sit down with him and tell him that you've noticed strange behavior with his phone. This will give him a chance to explain himself before you accuse him of cheating. Not Helpful 1 Helpful 8. What should I do if my spouse gets phone calls and texts from a number that he says he doesn't know?
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