Contents:
It is actually healthy for your relationship.
Are you and your partner financially compatible? What did you want to be when you were a kid? SignUp For Newsletter Get amazing content delivered to your inbox.
Even though men are seen as the serial cheats, women take the trophy. This Blogger's Books and Other Items from But when you take a close look at the nature of love and romance, one thing becomes clear: Lies about fidelity and money are the two most common ones that affect couples. He is like a brother to me: Although the familiarity in the tone of those texts did not ring true for just a one-night stand, when I asked you, yet again you reassured me. You had also spent some of our family money on this woman and taken her away for weekends.
Subscribe to our daily Newsletter. Lady Speak Lies every cheating woman have used. By Wanja Mbuthia 20th Nov Baby Care Public breastfeeding: The good, the bad, the ugly By Gardy Chacha. Marriage Advice Love and money: Marriage Advice Tips for a happy relationship - and why you should manage your expectations By Mirror. Entertainment Jail for controlling boyfriend who banned his lover from social media and from talking to men unless they were gay By Mirror.
Entertainment Chinese man losses his privates in the hands of his raging partner By Mirror. Coupled with respect and love, trust gives you a strong basis as a couple.
While trust is a bond, it is also a tenuous one, easily broken, if one of the partners constantly lies. When we talk about lying we're talking about untruths that affect a relationship to the point where trust becomes simply a meaningless word. It no longer is an active part of being a couple.
That breaks the strong bond of partnership. Lies about fidelity and money are the two most common ones that affect couples. They make it almost impossible to have real trust ever again in a relationship. If your partner has cheated or if you feel that he or she will cheat again you have a trust issue.
In addition to lying to you, he or she is making you constantly be waiting for "the other shoe to drop.
Taking him or her back is not an option for you. Life is too stressful. I absolutely cannot trust him. Once I caught him in a lie that changed everything.
I can't take him back no matter how charming he seems to be right now. Lies about finances are also trust breakers.
There are some ways to spot someone who is lying. By Sheri Stritof The bottom line is, if you think your spouse is lying, ask questions and ask for clarification if necessary. Warning Signs Your Spouse Could Be Cheating. Realizing your spouse has financially cheated or lied could be the One of the common warning signs or red flags in a marriage is lying about.
A newlywed woman confided to me about what her husband had done that constituted a complete marital trust breaker. In the glow and trust of being "just married" she had put his name on her bank account. She had worked hard and saved for years to accumulate the money. A week after coming home from her honeymoon she had gone to cash a check for two hundred dollars only to be told there were insufficient funds in her account.
Her new husband it seemed had used her money to pay off his heavy debts, debts she knew nothing about! He had told her that he was debt-free when they were dating. After I left he wanted to "try again" but I was not willing to be with someone who was untrustworthy.
Then there are the sad lies we don't want to hear. Lies such as, "I didn't call because my cell phone died.